I've just done something I've been wanting to do for ages on Mylot.

@thea09 (18305)
Greece
August 19, 2009 5:29pm CST
I hope it didn't cause offence and I could have chosen someone else at random to pose the question to but I did it. I accepted a friend request last week. As a politeness when I do this I usually go in and respond to a few of their discussions. To my suprise I was ignored but so were most of the other respondees. New alerts of new discussions appear from the same person. Why? So I responded first to the newest discussion asking why he keeps posting discussions but does not respond. Have you been tempted to butt in and ask this same question? Or do you also not bother to respond.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
19 Aug 09
I've wanted to but I've never had the nerve! I can see not responding to every single response since once in a while you get one that all you can do is go "huh?", but to not respond to any of them? Good way to get people not to visit your discussions! Did the reply?
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
19 Aug 09
Hi dawnald, no reply as yet but I'm not really expecting one. I didn't plan to do it but am constantly irritated when this happens, I don't think there's anything in the rules to stop me doing this. We could all do it once as eventually they are going to realise there is no point to starting all these discussions, he had previously responded on stuff otherwise I wouldn't have accepted the request but since my second response which probably flabbergasted him he's not been responding at all but still posting new ones.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
19 Aug 09
people did it ever occur to you maybe some of us want desperately to get everything done at once but we arent speed typists, we may healthproblems , and time problems, I sure did not sit here and say oh I am going to make a lot of discussions but not answer the responses as I dont care for I do cAre a lot and I am trying now to go through' And systematically Answer each and everyone. I hAve ten and all have a leAst twenty answers as a rule and I have yet toget to them As my leftshoulder is giving out on me and cramping my typing style. I will do the ten more tomorrow And if necessary I will hAve to do some the next day but I will answer,I always have. hatley
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
19 Aug 09
Hatley - I don't object to a person who doesn't always respond or where it takes them a long time to get to responding. but people who post discussions and NEVER comment back to people's responses are going to find that people stop coming around to their discussions, that's all.
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@tdemex (3540)
• United States
19 Aug 09
If their new I let them know they should. Most people on here to make cash. The name of the game is write and write some more! As you know. They will be the first one to complain that they don't make any money here. I just poitnted this out to a newbie today and he was very grateful. So yes I let them know! They won't be here long if they don't tdemex
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@tdemex (3540)
• United States
20 Aug 09
Aw! Your so sweet! Keep up the good work and being a good person! T---
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@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
20 Aug 09
Thanks tdemex, actually I believe that the poster I targeted uses Mylot to pick up women, or certainly his friends list seems to point that way
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@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
19 Aug 09
Hi tdemex, I noticed you answering that question today but it was in relation to a question on how the chap could make money on here. I just plain out asked why he started new discussions when he hadn't replied to his others. He wasn't asking for advice but he did ask to be added as a friend, well there's not a lot of point having friends like that. But I do help out some, I was the first friend of a newbie who's just reached her star and I've given some tips out.
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@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
20 Aug 09
Hi there! I have also had somewhat similar experience. I added someone as my friend, her discussions were quite interesting, I kept responding to her discussions, however, I found out later that you won't comment on my responses, though other responses were commented upon. I then stopped posting my responses to her posts because I try to submit my response with due sincerity and if someone ignores the same and doesn't acknowledge, I stop responding to his/her posts. I love to post my responses to those friends/mylotters who never fail to post their comments on my responses.
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@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
21 Aug 09
Hi dear! Yes, you are right that we are on the same wavelength here, that is why we are friends here. I am not sure whether we are referring to the same mylotter(s) or not. There may be more than one mylotter, who just selectively posts her comments. If you wish, I'll tell her name through PM, you may also do likewise, so that we both could be more careful in future, while dealing with this kind of mylotters. I've stopped responding to her posts. Yes, you are on the dot, we feel all the more bad, when we write a 'simple and positive' response, which does not contain anything offensive, yet we do not get any comments. dpk
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
20 Aug 09
Hi dpk, we are on the same wavelength here, there is definitely a difference when you respond to someone and know they will comment back and make it into a proper discussion. I've noticed someone like the one you mention too, posts discussions, comments on responses, but leaves certain people out. I don't understand that as the responses left out are not confrontational or rude but it certainly looks rude to me when I see it that a couple of people appear to have been deliberately ignored. It seems this question appears to be boiling down to those who will not tolerate bad manners from fellow mylotters.
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@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
21 Aug 09
Ok, wil do.
• Canada
21 Aug 09
I think that people who don’t take the time to respond to the comments left on their discussions just simply don’t realize it makes their myLot time much more enjoyable and more beneficial as it appears you get paid more for taking care of the discussions you start. At least that is my observation from my first experience on myLot. I started many conversations in one day and made less money then when I started only a couple of conversations another day and responded to the comments. I felt I learnt my lesson of trying to take the easy way and more importantly I learnt a lot about myLot. Another thing; after reading through the discussion it has been said that many people get offended by what is said or isn’t said in their discussions. Why be offended at all. Unless someone makes a personal attack on your character it really is a waste of energy to be offended. MyLot is about views and opinions how we can be offended by someone else’s ideas. Respect it and enjoy it and hopefully we will learn from each other.
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• Canada
21 Aug 09
Ah, now the religious discussions I really enjoy! Pwople can be mean spirited about that topic for sure. The same goes for politics. Sad really. When people get so carried away with their anger and rage on either one of these subjects I tend to wonder what are they affraid of?
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
21 Aug 09
Well you can't be in there much, religion and politics I mean, as if you express an opinion there which doesn't tow the party line you wouldn't have a red star
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@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
21 Aug 09
Hi coffeeanyone, it is certainly more beneficial to earnings to nurture your discussions along so to speak, plus you are likely to get return visitors more often to your other discussions as they are more likely to remember you. I agree completely that there is no need at all for any sort of personal attacks here and difference of opinion make better debates. However I will never enter the religion interest because of the lack of tolerance there for differing opinions. I come here to enjoy it not to face confrontation.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
20 Aug 09
I usually just delete anyone when they act like that. Too many nice people to respond to w/out someone like that.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
20 Aug 09
Good luck in figuring him out . I quit trying to figure out why people act like they do a long time ago. It's really just a waste of time. Good luck.
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@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
20 Aug 09
Hi Jo, well you always respond back and respond to your friends discussions too which makes you a really good Mylotter. I could have just deleted him of course but I don't understand why they do it and wanted to know. There could have been hundreds I could have asked but this one happened to be on my friends list. I rather think your friend Hatley has taken offence to this discussion and hope I've not upset her, it was in no way aimed at her and I hope she's managed to see the two response I gave plus the one from the first poster.
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@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
20 Aug 09
The voice of reason Jo, say it like it is, why waste my time figuring it out.
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@akuler (3531)
• Malaysia
20 Aug 09
Hi thea, I have one on my friends list that only comment on senior (base on total post) first or maybe they are his/her best friends here. But he/she will come back later to comment mine. At first I am bit annoyed but later I am ok with it. I will not ask this kind of question because we have our right here. If he choose not to comment our response then we have a right ignore his discussion and OFF the notifier. Or at the extreme level, we can delete him fro our friends list. The choice is us to make. Happy mylotting and have a nice day.
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@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
20 Aug 09
Hi akuler, every one must treat the none responders in a different way but I just so wanted to know why they do this. So I asked. As you know I do respond all the time, in fact with you I feel a little one sided as I don't reply much to your discussions but you really wouldn't want me there shaming the name of football with my complete ignorance. But I always respond back to your responses not only as it is the polite thing to do but because in itself that makes Mylotting so much more interesting. I could hit the delete button with this person but his discussions could be such fun if he only allowed them to happen.
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@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
20 Aug 09
I think I asked a question which bothers a lot of people, and as I said somewhere else on here these people will either get bored very quickly or start discussions as to why they are not making any money when they post lots of topics. I am not telling someone the must respond, just genuinely wondering why they don't. I'm not asking people to agree with me but if they don't agree that is no reason to rate a discussion negative.
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@akuler (3531)
• Malaysia
20 Aug 09
Hi thea, Most of my discussion responded by someone who is not on my friends list because usually I will ask about certain interest and/or technical problem and I know most of my friends didn't know or knew too little about it. So, I never bother if they can't respond to it. And I also didn't post many discussion. For sure I didn't want to hear that, thea. You might get - rate, not from me, from the other responders.
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@silverglint (2000)
• Philippines
20 Aug 09
I think its because that person assumed that he/she will only earn from posting discussions and responding to other people's discussions but not when he/she comments to those who responded to their discussions. I used to do that too. I wanted to make it to pay out as soon as possible so I was thinking that I don't want to be wasting time reading and making comments to other people's responds to my discussions. silly right? i know anyways, I learned my lesson and soon realized that its a called a discussion because I was expected to comment. Some claim that you can earn a few more cents that way, though some don't. I don't know which is true but I have decided to comment back to those who took the effort to read and respond to my discussions
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
20 Aug 09
Hi silverglint, without a shadow of a doubt I would say you make the most money by guiding a discussion through with comments which lead to interaction within the discussion. It is much faster to do as well, you are already in the discussion tl answer so don't need to keep moving around, preumabely if you post a discussion you are interested in it and don't need to look round for other peoples discussions which may be of interest to you. Also the more you interact well with other people the more likely you are to see them come back and respond to you again and a rapport builds up when you also join their discussions. Everyone gets it wrong to start with, well I did for sure, as had never used a site like this before but once I got the hang of it I certainly want to enjoy it whilst I'm doing it.
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@stealthy (8181)
• United States
19 Aug 09
I try to respond but more oftern than I like, I don't have time or just don't really have anything else to say on the subject. I'm not one of those who thinks that just saying thanks for responding means much.
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• United States
20 Aug 09
I agree with you about just saying thanks. If I have nothing to say on a given subject, that hasn't been said already, I see no point in saying anything. We have a laptop and a desk top computer in our home. When all three of us are home, someone cannot get on, usually me, which is my choice. I could ask and someone would be happy to let me get on. I CAN ALWAYS DO SOMETHING ELSE.
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@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
20 Aug 09
Hi stealthy, I actually find the token thank you, or the even worse 'thanks for sharing' more insulting than being ignored. The advantage of the former is that I am more likely to remember their names and not respond in the future. We have different methods here most definitely, I do respond to every response and hopefully turn it into a discussion. The only ones I ignore are the small irritating comments left as a quick response to get numbers up.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
19 Aug 09
hi thea gee I hope this he wasnt really a she nAmelyme'as I s tarted way too many discussions when I first came back to mylot and I could not really get around quickly to commnent on all of them but have been working on them most of the day today,its hard tooas my left shoulder is really bothering me making it hAd to type as it keeps cramp;ing. I'havent been tempted to as a mylotter why he or she didnt comment as I know sometimes things happen making it hard to get bAck to doing your discussions.It isnt a matter of not being bothered its a matter of time,life and health issues for me.
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
19 Aug 09
Now Hatley, where are your investigative skills today, I did say 'he'. I realised with your good self when we first met that you are struggling with health issues and take your time but that doesn't mean you ignore people. Certainly you can reply back in your own time, anyone can, but why keep posting new ones if they can't manage any of the last ones. I never gave a thought to the time delay when you commented back on one of yours today, but I do notice you responding regularly to mine which is nice. Don't carry on typing when your fingers are cramped, try tossing a tennis ball between your two hands to alleviate the cramp, and turn the computer off. After all you have a good reputation here, you've nothing to prove to anyone.
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@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
20 Aug 09
I was concerned that I may have hurt Hatley's feelings so sent a pm to cheer her up.
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@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
20 Aug 09
Mike you have exactly got my point, thanks for the defence.
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@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
20 Aug 09
I thought I can handle that kind of situation once. There was this user who post a lot of discussions. I responded to some of his for quite some times. But since we got friends, I never saw him in mine. So when I responded to his discussion for the last time, and he commented, I commented back by telling him that I never saw him responding to any of others discussions, though I saw his activity that he did to some. I also told him that he may lose responders in time if he will not support others, and just wait for your discussions be responded, as this site is also a give and take, two-way system. He said he has is own way of making money here, by creating more discussions. Since then, I turned off notify to him and never bother to see him again.
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@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
20 Aug 09
Hi neildc, great answer, I love his explanation, I don't think I could have been bothered to set him straight. Generally if they are in my friends list then they are the sort who respond back, this must have been an aberration letting him in, no I remember how it happened now, he did respond to me on a discussion he made very politely then asked if I would accept him as a friend and I don't think I did my usual checks. Re the friends not responding to my own discussions there are a quite a few who don't and it hasn't bothered me as one discussion can't suit all and I often don't respond to friends discs if it's not my type of thing. But the ones who are now posting new discs constantly which are not of any interest to me at all will go in the next cull.
@mentalward (14690)
• United States
20 Aug 09
I respond to any discussion I find interesting. Whether or not the OP responds doesn't bother me, unless I've asked a specific question that I'd like an answer to. Is this person you're talking about new here? Maybe he/she doesn't realize that they should respond to all comments in order to make more money. Maybe they need to be told this in a PM. I try to respond to all comments but my energy level is pretty low these days and I don't have the time or energy to respond to every comment, although I do try when I have the time to go back and respond. I've noticed that some newer members think that the comments they receive to their discussions is what makes them money, even when they don't respond, but it doesn't. Responding back to the comments is where the money is. Maybe they just need to be told that. It does sound like they're only here for the money if they don't respond to any comments. They probably just post discussions then forget about them and move on to posting the next discussion, then the next, and so on. If that's the case, you may never get an answer to your question about them not responding since they don't check back.
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
20 Aug 09
Hello Mentalward, well believe it or not I did get an answer which satisfied me, he likes to post discussions to read the opinions. Now as far as I can see I will guide the odd one if they don't mind in tips on how to get the most from a discussion but there are lots of discussions out there advising in general on how to earn on here, which is by responding to discussions one starts. It is not my place to make the assumption that this poster was here to make money so I wouldn't blurt out to him that he's going about it all the wrong way. The more important point to me is the lack of manners in not responding at all. So he's answered which shows he reads them but I doubt I'll respond in future as it's all rather pointless. I think with your other point about not having the energy to comment back that's fine, if someone is used to seeing someone comment back there isn't a problem with being missed out sometimes, it's the all the times ones which bother me.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
20 Aug 09
Hi thea! I so agree with you! And there are more than just one or two he and her that start lots of discussions and just about never bother responding! I have quite a few of them on my friends list! I respond to their discussions and they never bother responding to mine! I no longer bother responding to theirs either! I think it is just plain rude to start discussions and not ever bother going back to them! Then why bother starting them in the first place! If it's just about the money mylot admin isn't stupid and they will certainly find that out!
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@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
20 Aug 09
Hi Opal, glad to hear back from you in agreement. Whether it is a friend on my list or a complete stranger to me I expect a response to my response as at the very least it is good manners. The endless churning out of discussions with no interaction completely misses the point of a discussion in the first place which needs interaction to keep it going. Also if I do look back and see a response to one in ten people that annoys me too as obviously the other nine people weren't worth responding to. I respond to all and if I couldn't keep up I wouldn't post a new discussion so I don't buy that one as an excuse, but that doesn't mean to say I expect everyone to respond instantly, they can take their time but in the meantime don't post another 10 new discussions a day.
@rosekiss (30414)
• Eugene, Oregon
20 Aug 09
I always post a comment to all responses, as it is only being respectful, not to mention that it the only way I am going to get paid for my discussion. I have responded to a lot of discussions, that didn't have cmments by the one that strted the disucssion. I don't know fi it we a oversight on their part, or if they just decided to quit and not come back. I saw today, that one person had started several discussions in a row, and I didn't respondd to them as they were't interesting and I don't think they were of a very good quality wither. I don't thing they should be allowed to keep posting discussions, knowing full well, they aren't got post comments to them. Like, I said it is just common coutesy to post comments back and lets them know that I did see their response and was posting a comment to it. Good luck to you and happy mylotting.
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@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
20 Aug 09
Hi rosekiss, I agree completely with you, at the very least it is good manners and common courtesty to reply to the discussions you start or else they are not discussions. Maybe there should be a certain number allowed until they get the message and have to go back and read the guidelines. Eventually most of them will post a discussion asking why they aren't earning any money and you can bet they'll start responding to that one. Either that or they'll get pretty bored pretty quickly. Also if they don't respond back they probably never read the responses, rate the responses, or hand out best responses.
@thokius (426)
• Austria
20 Aug 09
Hello Thea09, I have noticed that a lot of the mylotters don't bother to respond to there discussions. You must have fell upon one of them. I myself try to respond to all of my messages and replies. Cheers! Thok
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@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
20 Aug 09
Hi Thok, indeed many mylotters do not comment on their responses which I find ill mannered. But I don't see the point of it at all, they cannot be achieving anything from it, either moneywise or interaction wise. I for one would drop from boredom if all I did was think up new discussions and then ignore the responses, it's a bit like just talking to oneself. If I spot them I don't usually waste my time responding at all. Good to hear that you also work in a well mannered way.
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
20 Aug 09
Hi again Thok, and as long as the topic is something you have an interest in then it is easy to enjoy the responses and let the comments flow.
@thokius (426)
• Austria
20 Aug 09
Yes. You are right. If you do not respond you do not get any money or excitement. I for one enjoy seeing what others think of the topic I've posted since I get the opportunity to learn from them.
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
20 Aug 09
Hi Dear well, if it would be me, i would not be asking this question, but might stop replying his/her new post. Though i am not one who start new discussions often, but its always feel great if some one response to ur comments, u feel and u get reply and it make the circle complete. And trust me i love to stretch the thread at max Take care
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
21 Aug 09
Do agree with u and to answer your Question as WHY people just start discussion and dont reply to responses, Well, Dont Forget its Paying site and u get paid when you start discussion and get responses, so some people try to ADD as many people as they Can, Start as many discussion as they can, regrdless they are meaning ful or not, and trust me you will notice that serious questions drae very Less Responses but weired and stupid discussion get LOT of comments. Anyway, Take care byeee
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
22 Aug 09
Hi cupid, actually people only make money on a discussion they start by commenting on responses, they don't earn by other peoples responses unless they are commented on. Regularly a newish member who never comments back will start a discussion as to why they don't earn much - there was one today exactly like that.
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
20 Aug 09
Hello Cupid, I know it was a bit off the wall to ask the question but just couldn't resist, I really wanted to know why people post topics they don't appear to have any interest in. Like you I like responses I can try and turn into an interactive discussion, some of them don't have many responses on but they go back and forth in the most enjoyable manner. I suppose it's lucky not to be bored by ones own topics which I think is probably the bottom line here, it so makes me laugh when every other day someone asks for 'favourite colour' and of course it's so easy it draws tons of responses. But who on earth could be interested in the answers and respond to them, I'd just lose the will.
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• United States
20 Aug 09
Hi thea09. I, like your friend, also don't respond to my posts. When I post a discussion, I just hope it interests people and then I'm off to finding discussions that interests me. When I stumble onto a discussion that I've responded to and the user comments back, I am happy but that's not how I like to do it.
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
20 Aug 09
I presumed you must be joking when I read your response, but you really aren't. You post many discussions without responding back.
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
22 Aug 09
Hi animegirl, I didn't bring the issue of commenting increasing earnings into this one as there have been so many discssions about that before but I noticed your comment somewhere that you've now started commenting and seen a big increase so hope this had a little influence in part.
• Indonesia
20 Aug 09
I hope it's not me thea cause I remember response into your discussion:) For me personally, I usually response my discussion later on the day at night. When I am at the office I tend to post response to other people discussion. Or I even comment the post a week later, this happened usually if there are many reponse to my discussion.
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• United States
20 Aug 09
I really dislike throwing this comment out for the world to see, but the odds are that the particular poster this was written about will probably NEVER SEE IT.
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
20 Aug 09
Hi Sophisticated, no it wasn't you but it's rather funny how people are thinking it is them without due cause. I have no problem with people responding at their leisure, my problem is the ones who post continually new discussions, ignore the people who respond, then carry on posting new ones. This discussion should hopefully draw attention to the fact that some of us find this rude behaviour, and also that the poster is completely wasting his time as will not earn anything from doing this as we only earn from commenting on responses on our discussions, not from starting many new discussions and ignoring them all. I think I'm inducing paranoiawith everyone thinking this was aimed at them, when it wasn't.
@jb78000 (15139)
20 Aug 09
thea,as you might have noticed by now, one of my hobbies is annoying people/ if someone tried that wee trick st work i'd be furious
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@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
20 Aug 09
Not quite with you there Judith. You mean if someone asked you why you never respond? But you do.
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
20 Aug 09
sent you a pm
@jb78000 (15139)
20 Aug 09
not to everyone. and that's my first name out thea . mind you the person i was trying to avoid would probably have twigged who i was anyway...and i don't think he is on mylot. judith
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• Indonesia
20 Aug 09
Hi thea09 Maybe that person is newbie here and he doesn't know that he can earn from commenting.. I do that in my first day in mylot (posting discussion, comment on one of them then go away to response others to increase my posts number). But, doesn't he realize, there are some discussion about commenting on a response? doesn't he ever read about that? Maybe if he's newbie here (I'm newbie too, I mean if his posts still below 5 or so) you can send pm to him and give information, that giving comment is sort of courtesy and of course, a way to discuss. He start the discussion and not just ask a question. That's quiet rude for me, never comment on any of the response he got.. Are you sure there isn't any comment from him? Personally, it doesn't bother me I get my earning in type response, whether it gets comment or not, and I focusing myself in make responses, so I usually forget about what discussion I've responded, except if the starter comment back (so I get notification in my inbox and can comment back).. Just pm him and if he ignore you then ignore him. If his topic interesting, type response, it's not your business he make comment on yours or not. That's my opinion..
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@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
20 Aug 09
Hi chrysan, I accept totally your point that as a new member one does not know the way around and how to do things on here, we were probably a lot of us like that. I would conside anyone with less than 100 posts to be new and that's not a problem as they can change their way when realise how the whole thing works. The person in my friends list is not by any means the only person who starts discussions and then ignores them, there are thousands of discussions out there just the same and to me it is totally pointless. As you say there are plenty of discussions out there pointing out the workings of things. For me I want to partake in a discussion not just answer a question which no one is going to read, I could have saved my answer for a more well mannered reciepient.
• Indonesia
21 Aug 09
I must admit that sometimes I think about it too. When I landed in a discussion and see that the starter not make any comment on responses he/she get, I will think twice before type any response, because there is some kind of pointless feeling, like "he won't ready my response so why I type response here."
• Philippines
20 Aug 09
uh..is there a chance that person might be me? because i now some how you did respond to some of my topics, but i didn't ignore you, NO way! but if i didn't commented on you that time am gonna say now am truly, i guess we were all busy with others discussion and comments. can you imagine those responses that i had to comment. am sorry too if i flooded your email..i just want to say something before i could forget about it..Peace be with you.
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@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
20 Aug 09
This is getting rather amusing Letran, the newest ones on my friends list are all turning paranoid thinking I'm talking about them - or you- I'm not. My point was aimed generally at all those who don't respond to their discussions but keep starting new ones, yes you have been starting a lot of new ones lately but I hope you'll get round to responding to them. What I do do though is if I get a huge amount of new discussions coming into email from the same person I tend to delete them as there are too many together but if they come in one by one they will get my attention more and I'll respond or not depending if I'm interested in the topic. The ones I mass delete I can catch in friends started if I have time to get there. So take a deep breath my friend and relax.
• Philippines
20 Aug 09
I do checked on my friends topics...even though it's bombarded too with responses and comments
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