Okay Guys, This One Is For YOU!! What Things Do You Do To Let A Girl Know......

A good one with just tell you or bring you flowers or laugh at something silly becasue he cared enough to have actually listened. The ones that don't really care lie, cheat on you and make your life a living hell while pretending to love and cherish you.

If I'm interested to know a girl, I usually show sincerity and good intentions. To get their attention, I always make sure that I show respect at first. If the girl is not interested, then I just let it go but I always give it a try. I'm a sweet person and I show it in a very unique way. I was known as a guy who always gives a card made by myself. Just imagine a card where in you can fold it four times and every fold gives you a different picturesque. Lol.

I have just told them really, as I have never really been into the ritual of courtship. In the past, obviously, if I have felt an attraction for a girl I couldn't help but look and usually right into their eyes to see if I could feel any attraction with them. With this I was nearly always correct in recognizing if my attraction was reciprocated. So now, having thinking about it, I look. I don't do anything or be any type of way. This always seemed to work for me - sometimes even got me into a little trouble! . Those days are gone now though. I am quite happily married and whilst I can acknowledge I beautiful women, I don't give that look anymore - not that it would work if I did these days! - Derek

I remember how I court girls before, I use to send songs or I will sing for them. The last time I did it was with my wife now. When we were already kinda drunk, on one occasion, and we were at the beach, I sing her a song, which she thought I just wrote it. But actually, that was so popular at that time, in the pop music here.

I am recalling my husband when we first met. I knew he liked me straight away by the way he was looking at me; he asked for my number and asked me to the movies and when he asked for a kiss I guess his intentions were quite clear especially when he said he wanted to see me again. I don’t like it when guys keep you guessing. My husband was quite a shy person and yet he divulged how he felt very early on. I tend to think that if a guy does not give away his feelings within the first few weeks, he is either not interested in a romantic relationship or he has issues.

Hello singlemommy, Interesting question. I don't really have a specific answer for it. I guess I would use more time rather then just one action. First of all I would show interest in what she likes, her friends, her favourite things etc. After that I would try to communicate with her for as much time as possible. Eventually she would accept me as a friend. After that it I would tell her directly or wait for her to find out on her own. Cheers! Thok

Nice question... Well my hubby do a lot! When he is courting me, he never waste time, although I ignore him but he never surrender. Simple text, chat, phone calls, visiting me in my apartment etc. Before I though he just want me to be his friends but then he confide that he likes me... and the rest is history.:D

As a woman, a guy could show me their undivided attention. They could want to give me all of their time and treat me nice also. They could buy me flowers or take me to see a movie and have a nice dinner. They could also cook for me to show me they are interested. They could just tell me also.

I have mostly been a very shy guy except on rare occasions, so showing that I am interested has not been easy. In my shy periods I would just look a girl and that was about it unless there was a reason to interact like taking a class together or working together, than I would try to to talk with them and sometimes give compliments. In my less shy moments I have actually just started talking with a girl that I say in a restaurent every morning who was alone or one walking across campus or at a party.

The way I've known without a doubt is when they called, often, and wanted to know how my day was, was there anything they could do for me, or just want to chat about anything under the sun. Guys who are interested, even if they are shy, will find ways to interact with you as often as they can. My oldest son is so shy it hurts but he's always managed to get his feelings across to a gal when he liked her, just by asking her simple questions like, "How's it going?", "What are you doing?" or "Can I help you with that?" [whatever 'that' might be]. In my experience, when a guy likes you, he finds ways to interact with you, shy or not. If he has your phone number, you can be sure he's interested if he sends you text messages or just calls out of the blue for no particular reason.

I know that what I am about to say is going to scare the crap out of some of the guys out there but here's the thing. I'm kind of thick when it comes to the guy-girl thing. I'm one of those girls who has been one of the guys most of my life. I tend to get my wires crossed a lot, thinking a guy is interested when he couldn't care less or thinking of a guy like a brother when all along he's falling in love with me... Had both things happen to me, more than once. So while it may be awkward for both of us, especially if I don't share your feelings, I would just as soon be told, point blank, "Hey, I dig you, let's go out," than to stumble around trying to interpret signals, nine times out of ten bolluxing up the whole friendship in the end.