My life sucks! Help please

Firstly accept the reality. What ever has happened has happened. If you think that you need your family back, then i suggest you try to do that first. If you think that well i am moving on, then try not to think of the past. Thinking of the past is like a chain around our mind and heart which will always interfere in whatever we do or whatever is said. We know its easier said than done, don't expect things to happen at the snap of fingers. Time heals, so take the time to get over.

Hey, Well if you are putting on weight, you should get a gym membership or something like that, also run every single day. For some reason, if you look better, you will also feel better. I don't know why, but it just works. Make sure you have a good day, God bless and Happy Lotting!!

My friend, I wouldn't say that your life sucks. You are just going through life's temporary highs and lows. But you cannot let any situation stop you from moving forward. Let's take myself, for example. I graduated with a Liberal Arts Degree from West Point, MS at Mary Holmes College. I was offered a full time scholarship, a job, and a place to stay, too after I had graduated. Even travel accommodations would have been made so I could visit my family during the holidays. I walked away from it all because I was afraid of accepting new challenges in my life. I was afraid that I would fail. I am still feeling the aftereffects of what I have done. That was 10 years back. I have trouble keeping a job. I just got laid off from my current job at a printing company. I have a substantial amount of debt I have a hard time getting out of. I had to move back home with my mother. I have no friends to go to for help out besides my own family. The list goes on and on. The point I am trying to make is your life won't seem all so bad if you view it from a different perspective. Sure your life can be so much better, and it can be a whole lot worse. Be content with what you have because if you don't you may lose that as well. There are people right now less fortunate than the both of us who would give an arm or a leg just to be in our shoes.

Have you tried asking God for help????? He can do anything, so if you just pray and ask him to help you through this though time I'm sure you'll be ok. Now if your really serious about getting through this as soon as you finish reading my response I want you to get a Bible, find these verses, and read them. Joshua 1:5, Psalm 16:8 , and Nahum 1:7. And remember God is able to do anything!

My life sucks more ! I BET !

It sounds like you're depressed. You need to see apsychiatrist to talk about things, and she can give you medication. I did this myself. There's no shame in asking for help, only shame in not asking.

I'm sorry about your partner leaving; I just experienced a break up myself. I made a hard decision to break up with my boyfriend. He may not think so, but that is his opinion. Yeah, right now, you may not have the motivation of a gnat, but work your way through this part wish her well, and move on. You have a job; millions of other people in this country don't have one. Perhaps you need to take that energy and put it into your job at present. Affirmations are a good source to keep you moving. As far as sleeping, though I haven't been told, Bath and Body Works Black Chamomile line with the body wash, lotion and pillow mist can help you get a good night's rest. Plus you gotta deprogram your mind for sleeping too. You can't take your worries into the next phase, you gotta sleep. debunk your mind, pray to the Almighty to take them from you and get some rest. Also Bath and Body Works has a Sleep roll on(all of this stuff I mentioned you can get at Ebay or at www.bathandbodyworks.com

hi AJ .. life is full of ups and downs, when one door shuts on you another will open up .. yes being away from your child is pain but then dear ... it gives you opportunity to concentrate on your job or carrer now ... move forward in your job ... when we have something to look forward too it will motivate us to do the waiting So when do you think you will meet up with your kid , why dont you plan for a very good vacation with your son ... for this of course you need the money and the best way is improve in your job i know it is easily said then done ... but we go tru problems of our own which are as sad as yours too ..

look most of the people are passing through situation like yours; me too. I am able to manage myself by just concentrating on god. I daily pray god and remember god everytime that gives me immense inner strength. Becasue this is the period in which no one can make strong and happy; only positive thing can survive you and that you can get by concentrating on god. This is my personal experience. May god Bless you with peace.

Everything happens with a reason. Nothing happens by accident. Whatever situation you're in right now, accept the fact that life is full of ups and downs. Human nature is tainted with so much sin and selfishness that all of us forget to look for one source of true strength and encouragement.....and that is focusing our very lives to our creator. Friends can sympathize with you, but the world will never be kind to us. You may say we're just humans born to make mistakes. Yes that is a fact indeed. Our sinful nature has alienated us from our loving God. But is never too late to give up on life. Just address all your concerns and worries to God and accept your weakness before Him. Prayer is a mighty weapon against the devil who are trying to tempt you in distrusting God and also to yourself. Learn the art of forgiveness and let go of your emotions. It will only activate undue stress to your body my friend. As long your still alive in this dying world, there is hope in God. Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery but today is a gift. That is why it is called a present.....don't give up.

I'm sorry for all that you are dealing with but too get motivated you need to start thinking positive and not think in the past. If there is a chance of getting back with your family. Work on that only if that is truly what you want. If not just move forward in keeping busy, eating good, maybe exercising - join a gym. I would also recommend reading "The Secret" by Rhonda Byrnes. Excellent movitation book teaching you how to have the life you deserve and want. I wish you nothing but the best in your life and stay focused. Take care!

One thing that I have alway's said to people is that once you reach the bottom there is only one way to go, and that is up. So alway's keep that in mind. Life give's us, up's and down's we just have to try and work our way out of the downfall's. Just try and think of something positive when you are in one of these mood's, or even think of your son, and about how much you want to see him, it will give you the will to keep working at your goal's.

You just need bear in mind such a saying:"All this wiil pass, and new life is around the corner."I am Chinese, wish you happy.

Well there is a saying my grandpa once told me when he was living "Yesterday is history tommorow is a mystery and today is a gift that is why it is called the present" life is full of surprises u just have to learn how to get threw them new doors will open and i guess all u really need is to move on. i know what its like ive had experience but just wait things will lighten up