Why BS yourself?

United States
August 20, 2009 2:04am CST
Over the past 4 years I have been plagued with the drama of my family, friends and even the drama I unknowingly created. But seriously why do we put up with it? There's billions of people on this Earth if you don't like them why not come out and say hay F*** OFF. I mean...you might not get the best response out of them but look at the bright side you will NEVER have to put up with their potential drama. I don't put up with drama or BS I don't think anyone else should either. Surround yourself with people that compliment your personality and you and you'll be fine. TRY to fit in with other and you're f***ed.
4 responses
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
20 Aug 09
I 110% agree with you. This is why I don't have one of my sisters in my life. I couldn't deal with the drama she brings and the phony personality. I thru her out of my house almost a year ago and haven't spoken to her since and I like it that way. My mom is not happy about it and prays that we will talk again however, I keep telling my mom stop praying its not going to happen. There is nothing that says you have to get along with your family. Its just the way it is. Personalities clash and that is just the way it is. I have girlfriends that mean more to me than my own sister. It might be harsh but that is the way it is.
• United States
20 Aug 09
Glad to hear I've got a level headed person on my side! And serious, cudos to you for having the balls to throw her out. It takes a lot to do that to family but sometimes it's the best decision you can make.
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
20 Aug 09
Yes when I thru her out I think my family was a bit in shock. I'm a really nice person and it goes against my nature to fight or argue for that matter. However when you just can't take the crap anymore I had to let her have it. It felt good and now I'm happy with her out of my life.
@mrshughes (352)
• Philippines
20 Aug 09
Sometimes we have to put with people that we dont like but the best thing to do is not to get involved with those people. Yes there are lots of people out there that is nice to be around with..but i love to be around with my family most of the times coz with them i always feel safe, cared and loved. Again...just avoid them and get on with ur life. Hope this helps.
• United States
20 Aug 09
I agree!
@bird123 (10643)
• United States
22 Aug 09
Calm down! It will all be OK! I'll let you in on a little secret. The drama will follow you wherever you go. The DRAMA is where most of the LEARNING takes place!!!! So take you a break. Do LOTS OF THINKING AND NOT FEELING. You will be ready for the second round!!!
@rhoday (152)
• United States
20 Aug 09
There is an old saying "take me as I am or walk away". Well I still live by that. If people don't like me for who I am then so be it. I am not changing just to make them happy.