What are you doing to cover up your dissapointed?
By Zhizho
@Zhizho (1350)
Indonesia
August 20, 2009 2:54am CST
Hi There,There many thing was happened in our live.Happiness,sadness,succes and dissapointed.Honestly,I could not be brave to face dissapointed.I was angry,cry and thinking my problem and regretted.Grateful,I have good husband and gime me spirit and told that it's not problem.I try to forget it.How about you guests? Please share your experience.Thanks before.
6 responses
@cathrinekhor (111)
• Malaysia
20 Aug 09
there are times we will be disappointed towards what we have seen or done. Sometimes our physical will just show out our emotion of our dissapointment.
life goes on, i think the best i can do is forget it and try to move forward. no matter you are happy or not life goes on. so there is no point of keeping the dissapointment to our self.
@Zhizho (1350)
• Indonesia
20 Aug 09
I agree with you that no matter you are happy or no,life must go on.Yes,the best thing is forget it and try to move forward.It's right thing but it not easy to do it friend.It take time and sometimes we need support from friends or family.But you are optimist person I guest.Thanks for your response.
@wolfie34 (26770)
• United Kingdom
20 Aug 09
I really wish I could cry! From a child I was always taught that boys must never cry in front of others or show their feelings, which is totally wrong, so I have grown up thinking that men must never cry because it shows weakness. So instead of crying and getting it all out and feeling good afterwards, I feel anger and I start to get bitter and moody and tense, all bad emotions that I bottle up instead of getting out and getting on with my life. Life is full of disappointments it's how we get over them that is the problem. Smile and shrug it off and hope for a better tomorrow.
@Zhizho (1350)
• Indonesia
20 Aug 09
Wow,you are true man but I think it's not wrong that man cry but not often surely.It's humanly.Yes,there are many problem in life and all human will face it but we could be optimist that we could trough it.It's important thing.Believe in your self.Because God give us strength.Thanks for your response guest.
@tyt2222006 (172)
• China
20 Aug 09
When I am disappointed, I will calm down and convince oneself out of it. Do sports helps too.
@EliteUser (3964)
• Australia
23 Sep 09
Hey,
Well the main thing I do is that I just try and keep a straight face. Never smile, laugh, cry, nothing really. But when I come home from wherever I go, I hop on my computer and discuss with people on MyLot. Make sure you have a good day, God bless and Happy Lotting!!
@chason (22)
• United States
20 Aug 09
I hold it all inside and cry when no-one is looking. As a man, I'm expected to be brave and strong. I'm not allowed to show any weakness. Many people are depending on me. If I shed tears, I will show no-one. I have many things to be disappointed about.
@Zhizho (1350)
• Indonesia
20 Aug 09
Hi chason.is it wrong for man to cry? I think it's humanly and it's not wrong.But yes,it's good to try strenght.But share our feel to some one or best friend is one of way we can cover up.Be optimist and try to do something positif and show that we will be not dissapointed more.Ok,thanks for your response guest.
@skye86 (57)
• India
20 Aug 09
I am a person with plans and whenever I face disappointment I turn to another plan. That said I do cry when nobody is near. I want to speak out and make my disappointment known but have no such person to share with. So over the years I have learnt to keep failures locked up and move on to new things. I feel like I will die the day I run out of contingency plans.
