I don't remember I added him as a friend....

Hi sutan! I remembers who my mylot friends are. Since my notifications are all on, it helps me to always get in touch with my friends everyday. Even those who have been inactive for long.

I guess I am lucky that I have a very good visual memory. When I receive a friend request, if it is from a user that I am not already ware of, I go to their profile and see where they are from and which age group they are in. Then I look at what sort of interests they are involved in and how they came to be intrested in having me on their list. Then, most times, I accept them. Once on my list I never forget them even months later. If they are on my list then there is always something special that I can remember them by

There are so many people on my friends list I can never remember who added who. But I do sometimes wonder who my friends are if they happen to change their avatar, especially if they do it a lot and I can't remember them by their username alone. I just have to ask, do you recognize me as one of your friends? Or do you not remember who I am? We are on each others friends list, after all. LOL Welcome back sutanhartanto. Happy mylotting!

Perhaps some people have changed the avatars, so you can't recognize them:) I think this is the reason. As sometimes I even can't recognize my friend immediately when they change the avatars suddenly. I have to spend some time to recognize them again. You haven't changed your avatar so that I still remember you:) I love China

Hi Sutan Yes, sometimes I feel the same with you, but I think it's better to have more friends here, because our discussion can be seen by more people if we have more friends.. When I started mylot 1 month ago, I really need friend, so I send pm and approve all friend requests here. Well, maybe you and them have different online time and thus you rarely meet them here? or they have changed their avatar? Personally, I think it doesn't matter you keep in touch with all your online friends or not, because there are so many! Impossible to know them one by one closely, and who knows they are real or not? Just be nice and polite to other and more friends means better chance for our discussion to get responses

Hello Sutanhartanto, Well, I am still farely new on MyLot and I asked for friendship request to some and others asked for my friendship request. But just to set the record straight, in case you are wondering about me, you asked for my friendship a couple of days ago....LOL... :) Have a wonderful day and happy MyLotting! Olivia~

Hey der, how are you doing? I hope you remember me? Well yeah even i accept frend request and then i dont see them again, I mean i dont see any discussion started by them and then i dont see them responding to mine. So i guess we dont usually remember if we have added them in the first place...

Lol. Yes, that's what I also did when I first started here in mylot. I have a lot of friends in my list that I haven't heard from in along time. And there are even ones that are unfamiliar to me, as if we've never communicated before. Do you think it would be fine to erase them now from the list?

Yes, I also felt the same way as you. Too many friends, who have welcomed me into his friend, and too many friends that I sent a request to be friends. I know some of them as they often respond to discussions, but many were unknown to me, I feel this is very reasonable, considering the number of a friend owned. I'm also from Indonesia, will you accept my friendship request?

i have the same feeling tha i forgot when they added and who they are.there are many mylot friends in my list.some i always see and some seldom. i think it is time different from some friends.when they login i am not or when i login they are not.i always keep in touch with one friend from mylot.he is ver friendly and kindly.

Me too i just approve who want to be my friend here in myLot and i don't remember them when i saw them on my friend list and i just doubting why they want to be my friend i think because of my cutie pic. LOL

THE MORE THE MERRIER, SUTAN!!! don't worry about it... be glad you have plenty of friends! happy myLotting1

Yes it can happen sometimes. Sometimes people become inactive and when they come back after long time we are not able to recognize them. Also if there are too many friends we can not follow the discussions started by all of them so we tend to forget them. But as I have less friends so I do tend to remember almost all of them. But as I remember people normally by their avtar image, I sometimes do not recall my friends when they change their avtar image.