How do you pick up the pieces when a relationship has fallen apart?

@laydee (12798)
Philippines
August 20, 2009 8:22am CST
How do you deal with heartache? Do you easily get over a broken relationship? or are you like me who still dwell and mope so much before having the chance to stand up again?
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
24 Aug 09
Hi Laydee... It has been a long time isn't it? do you remember me? So, you have yet not come out of your breakup in starting of this year, did you? Is it that difficult for you? I have had a break up 2 years ago and I hardly took 2 mnths to get out of that situation. Now, I am free to do anything in my life. I didn't do anything special. Just went back to my home
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
25 Aug 09
Nah, this isn't about me.
• India
24 Aug 09
It depends on the amount or the deepness of the wounds created in the relationships which we have. If the other's feelings are not hurt very much we tend to get along quite soon. But if there is some serious damage to the feelings of the other there needs to be given some amount of time to mend the broken relationship by apologizing and forgiving.
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@phayeth (519)
• Philippines
21 Aug 09
actually me, i'm in this mode.. co'z i just got broken hearted... i just busy myself with my work.. and also telling myself.. that his no good for me.
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