What do you think about sensitive guys ?

Hi kitty Well if you are talking about crying and stuff then i have to say those aren't my stuff hehe... anyways what is the case with me is that, i don't get along very well with new people, the ones i haven't met earlier, i just don't know what to talk about and all, sometimes it really takes me time to open up to new people, also i have a lot of trouble speaking in the public, it kinda makes my face pale, it happens all automatically, i just don't want something like that to happen to anybody, i want to be good at it, i sometimes can not express myself freely in the public and sometimes when entering a crowded place i feel like there are people noticing me, although there might be none doing it but i just feel that way making me act like i am being watched and i become precautions at such times... all the unnecessary things i do when actually no one is actually noticing me, but i have to say i am a good listener, there is a friend of mine who so much likes to talk with me, when there are moments he is down and out he calls me and says he is so glad to have a someone like me as his friend, it makes me glad too... sensitive people make good listeners i guess, and yeah sometimes i have to say my sad friends make me sad and the other way round too, i should say your brother can be called sensitive as well...hehe . . . have a good day kitty

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That is so funny, I have to say that I am the same way, I always feel out of all the people in the crowd I feel all eyes are on me, when I am sure that is not that case, I live in the city I don't like it, too many people,works my nerve, I forgot to mention my grandson is also very sensitive, he is so sweet,love him so much, I am glad I had a chance to exchange thoughts with you, can I request your friendship here on mylot?

Well weasel i have to say i might be looking very rough and mean from outside but in the inside i am a lot more considerable, i just don't like to show my emotions in the public, it's just like a hard shell with a soft core, people don't know how i am, only when they talk to me do they know the real me... i am better off with the people i know, i am more frank with them, it takes me time to open up to someone have a good day weasel

Well animegirl I have to say, i am being what i am and don't want to change just because others sometimes would want me to, i just be myself and the way God has made me, i know there maybe a lot of drawbacks to me, but isn't like if i was someone else i would have had no drawbacks at all, i have to say, although i am a little more sensitive there are a lot of good sides to me, you are so very right, we should be what we are and not what someone else wants us to be... thank you animegirl and have a nice day

It's nice to find someone like me here... but i have to say, that just because we are a little more sensitive doesn't mean we are not strong, don't get the wrong conception dear friend, we may be stronger in other issues but just because we are more sensitive towards people doesn't make us weak, sometimes it just does the opposite, we able to learn more and grasp things faster, also don't think that our "manliness" is lost just because we are more responsive towards others... i hope you get me, we are the way we are and let us be what God has made us, just be yourself as they say . . . have a good day aprces and i will see you around friend

Hi pinklemonade, that was so well said, i was actually glad to go through that, it's so sweet of you pinklemonade thank you: ), you are very right, i guess after all i am manly as well as sensitive... i too have gone through articles and some polls and found out that women do like sensitive men, they want them to share their feelings, well then i guess it is a good thing for me...hehe... there aren't many sensitive guys out here but i hope you will find the right one for yourself one day.. hehe... yeah i have to agree sensitive men can have close relationships, even i think a sensitive girl would make me an ideal match, coz we would be more understanding towards each other . . . thank you for sharing pinklemonade, i appreciate it

Hi momonster I have to say i am not like that, i am not only sensitive with things just happening with me, i also think about others as well... i am not all about myself, i do have concerns about others as well but i just don't show that to anyone. . . have a nice day momonster and thanks for sharing

Hi smilestar Thank you for being honest here, i appreciate the effort you put in, i totally understand... but well i should say i am a little strange as well if you are talking that way.. coz have a look at my comment just above, there was a time i really got hard with matters... like some say sensitivity does not remove the "manliness" off a person, i have to say that is somewhat true... i am sensitive in the sense that sometimes i just don't know how to react to people giving me the silent outlook but yeah i have to say, i am more receptive than responsive, it takes me time to open up to new people and with time i just do great with them.. i hope you are getting what i mean to say here.. it is not always that a sensitive guy always has to say yes to someone just for because he can't deny them, i have to say they can unless they are extremely shy people, but that is not the case with me, i sometimes do wonder the way i am, i can be rude at times as well, i just don't know why it happens but well i think it is just me.... anyways . . thank you for being honest again smileonstar and have a good day!

Thank you Hatley for your honest response, i have heard women say that a lot too... sometimes the men try to act like they cannot be shaken, i think they try to show their "manliness" but i don't think any man should be like that all the time, and i have to say just being sensitive doesn't remove any "manliness" from us . . . thank you again and have a nice day Hatley

I understand ulalume, sometimes being manly is often taken the wrong way, we don't always need to be all that rough and tough type, i agree sometimes we need to be like that but not as a medium to show off our "manliness"... i have to agree people will more adore if we can show both sides of ourselves, only when time requires us to act that way should we get into a fight or something similar... i have mentioned here that i am a sensitive one and have mostly been a silent one in the class but i have also bashed the class bully back when i was in sixth grade, he never showed his face to me again and something i should say i am proud of ... hehe... people tend to get the wrong impression in the normal times when we are not all that "rough and though type" .... we just don't need to be like that all the time, i am just the way i am and am sure you are proud to be yourself too... thanks for your honest response ulalume, have a good day ulalume