The Real Meaning of My Dreams
@virgonian1988 (119)
Philippines
August 21, 2009 9:19pm CST
Good Morning MyLotters!
This is my very first emotional post in MyLot.
I am a single mother of two baby daughters. But that two are not living with me. The one is with my old uncle who is not 80 years of age but still very strong and still manage to take care of my daughter, he loves her so much! And the other one, the younger one is with her father all in the same big town.
Now, I have these horrifying dreams of mine straight in 3 nights, it is said that my uncle died and no one can take care of my older daughter whose age is 4 years. I know that I can't take care of myself on my own. I've been a very irresponsible mom for her. I have no job, I only depends on my money/income in blogging which is not enough for me and my daughter. I'm afraid that dream will happen but I am thankful that my uncle still lives but the fear in me still there which makes me worried everytime I wake up.
I don't know what that dream really means. If someone here who can tell me the real meaning of that dream, can you tell me ?
Happy Day MyLotters!
8 responses
@virgonian1988 (119)
• Philippines
23 Aug 09
yeah Huaxin! you are right... It is very hard for now but I never give up. Maybe this is just a trial for me but I still pray. I now God won't give us a problems that we can't handle... Thanks ^^
@virgonian1988 (119)
• Philippines
29 Aug 09
Yeah... courage, that is what my late auntie told me. She told me that not only once but most of the time when she still lives. I miss her!
Thanks a lot for the inspiring and encouraging response. It helps me a lot :)
@ibodemeh123 (77)
• Nigeria
24 Aug 09
Hey, i am not gonna encourage you to hang on like this. You are still young and energetic. Go out there and get something doing. Dont you like a better life and live responsibly. Because your uncle is alive, makes you not to push harder. Virgo move on baby and let this blogger thing compliment your living.
@virgonian1988 (119)
• Philippines
29 Aug 09
I am doing my best to earn more in blogging for the future of my kids and as well as myself. Thanks very much!! :)
@fifileigh (3615)
• United States
23 Aug 09
i think dreams are fun and fun to analyze but i am not very good at them.
but i think ur dream is trying to warn you and help you get your daughter back by find some full time job so that u can take care of her on your own. maybe, before u sleep tonight, ask in your dream, what some kind of hint of what job u can do in ur area. maybe it can guide u there in a dream so that u can be more independent and be able to take care of ur kids in the future on ur own. ur uncle is very old, even though he is healthy. it is hard for very old people to take care of kids. but little kids and very old people relate well together, and i am sure for now they are good companions, and together for a purpose until u r able to get a full time job somewhere.
@virgonian1988 (119)
• Philippines
29 Aug 09
yes, they are very good companion, that's what my friends told me. I am just updated via texts and chats of my friends who witness their everyday lives. I am missing them so much!! I can't help it but I am too far from them to visit. I will surely get my kids when time comes.. The right time...
@aprces (1082)
• China
23 Aug 09
No matter what you do, never lose heart.Come, cheer up!
Who said blogger cannot do something great.There are many blogger who has succeeded such as John Chow,Darren Rowse and so on.I just visited you blog,it's not too bad,and you can make it better.Your blog name is "the existence",a very cool name.Remember,Small fry also can do great thing.Everyone got their own regular depression.Just keep going forward,you'll be succeed,Good Luck!
@virgonian1988 (119)
• Philippines
29 Aug 09
honestly I am smiling with your response!
Thanks for visiting my site. I never though anyone here will visit cause I did not post my blog link in this discussion. But really, I thank you for that.
I really have to be my blog, a helpful one. Not to pity to.
@kl_blueknight (381)
• Malaysia
23 Aug 09
I think your dream is indicating your sense of insecurity, your fear and your loneliness. You worry about yourself, your children and your uncle who is acting as a "guardian angel" to your kid. What if my guardian angel is no longer here? What is going to happen to my kids? I am in no position to look after them. Your dreams are your fears for the reality. You must believe in yourself, be positive and march on should any of the unforseen circumstances arise. You are young, strong and your kids need you to be brave. I know you will find a way to look after your kids coz I know you are a good mother. If you are not, you wouldn't have these dreams. Remember, to your kids, you are their true "angel" and "protector". You should be proud of yourself that you still care for your children.
@virgonian1988 (119)
• Philippines
29 Aug 09
You are absolutely true about the questions for my future. I know I am not brave enough to face it now but maybe someday I will. I can't escape my fate. I am still the mother and the real responsible for my kids. Thanks for the comment. I will surely put that in mind and apply in myself :)
@LilDemonlady (67)
• United States
22 Aug 09
Dreams are often our subconscious telling us that there is something we need to do with ourselves and/or surroundings. From the sound of it, your subconscious is telling to become more responsible and to take the next step in life to make sure that you can care for yourself and your children if need be. It doesn't mean that you need to go find work right now, but it could be telling you to prepare, go to school, take ILS classes (Independent Living Skills, VERY helpful, took them myself, they have them online) If your in with a bad crowed, step away and straighten out. Most dreams like this are just telling you its time for a Big change.
@virgonian1988 (119)
• Philippines
29 Aug 09
Hi LilDemonlady,
I think you are right about that. I can't also work directly as in ASAP but I am planning to go to school, finish my education because I know I have something that can lift me up and my kids. Maybe I just need a little time...
Thanks for the response :)
@sanjana_aslam (4187)
• Malaysia
22 Aug 09
hi virgonian ..
this is time now for you to solve all your problems, try to improve yourself in any skill and get your self a better job ... which gives you a good income .. prepare yourself into being the good mother that you should be ...
Options will be either sewing or cooking, as you can self start somethings right from home ..
if you can invest in baking cakes or cookies .. would generate good income dear
cheers
@virgonian1988 (119)
• Philippines
23 Aug 09
Hi there!
Thanks for these advices. I will surely try all of these and if it works, I will be gladly to tell you (here) about it. Even it is hard for me to find a job, perhaps this will work without an application letter.
@tintukm (1102)
• India
22 Aug 09
Dreams are sort of reality,when we think of some thing that we want,love or even fear comes out as a dream that night because one would be thinking over and over of a particular thing.Its good to dream,people say,but is nightmare among the good one's.Dreams just last for a maximum of 2-3 seconds but we feel we are seeing a dream our whole night and most of the would not remember them the next day and may be would think of that incident some other time.Believe that dreams a a fake reflections.
@virgonian1988 (119)
• Philippines
23 Aug 09
thanks for a good informatio tintukm. I just really hope that my dream was not true because it is causing me a trauma of dreaming. It's like I don't want to sleep anymore...afraid of that dream anymore.
