teacher and student relationship...

Hi, perhaps he fell into your love.hahaha. Anyway i have a bitter experience of my school days. I was in class 8 when maths teacher had a habit to punish me. He did it everyday although i was not a bad student. I did not know his intention so i cut his bike's seat by blade. But now as i am a lecturer i always try to be friend philosopher and guide to my students. Lol

hello acie! wow1 i think you really are very beautiful and lovable and attractive! hehehe even at your very young age? huh! i think that teacher of yours is out of his mind that time...hehehe, can't believe that its possible at that situation...i mean you are just in grade school then...although i know some people who have this kind of relationship... i remember, i have a neighbor before...they are couples and im surprised to know that the girl is actually a student before of the guy...well he's way older than the girl... and when i am in college, we have one professor there who marries one of our batch mate...hehehe but age gap is not that far... but i know student-teacher relationship is prohibited... hmmm are you still seeing that teacher till now?

That sounds a pretty strange kind of relationship you had with your teacher. I am just glad that the teacher did not took advantage of your innocence at that time and he only expressed his feelings for you.

Hi and smile. I don't have experience like this. But we have a guy teacher in physical education before that was been punished for having "dirty games" like that. he promised one girl to passed the exam by making special project.He told the student to have a date with him. The girl worried that she will fail the subject and wont be included in graduation ceremony, so she said yes. But secretly the girl told it to her girl friends. The girl friends are so worried about the date so they all went to principal to voice out the problem. The principal know the next big step. Happy mylotting and smile always!

I think that it's great that a teacher takes a student under their wing to encourage them to do better. The notes of 'i love you', i think that is inappropriate though. There are some very fine lines there on what you can and can't say to a student. I know there was a teacher that was dismissed for dating a student. She was 18 (legal age), but the school had a strict policy and he was fired. They did later get married after she graduated from high school, but there need to be boundries.

Frankly speaking I have no such experiences like that,it sounds incredible when you are only in grade 6.In my opinion as a instructor your teacher should set a sunny role in your life instead of misleading.He can care for you but the notes like"i love you" are absolutely to blame.Happy to talk to u^^……

Perhaps he wasn't really serious with his 'courtship' perhaps it's his way to inspire kids to like math (as most of us don't really like it). But if that had happened these days, I doubt he'd have the guts to do that with all the rules and regulations, not to mention the harsh punishments he could face for doing such a crime. Or perhaps it wasn't really 'courting' but more of brotherly love. Well, we'd never know. Anyhow, I for one don't think it's appropriate whatsoever, parents trust these teachers to be role models for their kids and knowing that some teacher is taking advantage of his position as their teacher for his personal life, well, that's just creepy. I for one am teaching and I always make sure that I never cross that line and neither do students. I could definitely say that being younger than most teachers, there are drawbacks in terms of these kids trying to flirt with you. But it's up to the one who's more mature to act. You will always have a choice. I'd say, be a teacher when you're in school. Keep your private life away from your teaching to keep the peace. Should you feel you're falling for a student. Then quit your job as a teacher there and do the courting in appropriate places.

lol =D TEacher student relationships are always forbidden and prohibitted, because of their profession as teachers.. They are supposed to be guiding u, teaching but not, falling in love with students.. haha =D After all, students are too young and naive to know, what's love even.. What happens if teacher starts to exploit their so-called 'love'?? THat wont be a healthy relationship anymore.. haha =D Does your parent know about it, and did u end up with him in the end?? hehe ^_^ INteresting huh??

No, of course it's not OK. It's actually illegal in the US for a teacher to date their student (I think it could result in the teacher losing their job/teaching license.) I don't think it's a good idea. I think it's OK if both are consenting adults, but I think the student should either transfer OUT of the class or wait to continue the relationship after they finish the class. But that's just my opinion.

This had never happened to me before. But honestly if you are asking if it is right for a teacher to act this way towards their students. I don't think this is right at all. That is a very young age for anyone a guy his age to be making advances like that on especially. For like you said you really didn't know the meaning of love or truely the meaning of what he was doing. I think what happened to you was horrible. Where I am from what happened to you is a crime and so that teacher if found out would be going to jail.

I don't think that this is a good idea. Establishing professionalism is highly relevant in any school, and issues such as rhese would hurt the school's reputation

No i never have this kind of situation. And i think it's not good to students if teachers act like what you write here. If i were your mother i would be worried a lot about you. But now many similar cases like this are happenning everywhere in schools . I think for young students teachers shouldn't court them at all and they should be more responsible for their study instead of anything else.