have you ever liked a married person?

Philippines
August 22, 2009 1:02pm CST
this was a few years back so its fine... I just can't help but think of how i actually liked a married guy. I was single then and very young, was still in school. I believe though that was infatuation, he's very good looking and has great personality. But the fact that he liked me too was another story. Nothing really flourished with what we had since i was young and too scared. There was nothing really complicated about it. I just considered it as a normal college life. He begun telling me things that as i would think now, would make me believe he fell in love with me. I got over it but a few months ago we saw each other and he still has his feeling for me. I am so not into him now, i have my own life and im happy with it.. It makes me wonder what went wrong with his own relationship since he is married.
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6 responses
• Nigeria
24 Aug 09
It happened everywhere. Thank God you now have your own life. A similar incident happened to me too. A lady fell for me. Till today, she cant take her mind off me. She knows all about my family(wife and kids) she just wouldnt mind to be my second wife. I like her too but i cant stand two women in a home and also it does not make an economic sense. I discussed all that even encourage her to get someoneelse. I dont know why she cant help it too. I keep running away from because i dont want to be force to take advantage which she never mind. I really have conscience.
• United States
24 Aug 09
There is this man I really admire that I see everyday on the bus. I couldn't help but stare sometimes and once I noticed he's wearing a wedding ring. Not that I would have done anything if he was single but it still bummed me out a bit
@soulist (2985)
• United States
22 Aug 09
there has been a time when I had a crush on a married man. A friend of mine is married and I have a huge crush on him and I know it's just a crush and nothing will come out of it. I would never act upon it or anything. We became good friends and talk a lot, but I respect his marriage, him and his wife. I would never try to be the other woman.
@maezee (41988)
• United States
22 Aug 09
I've never had an AFFAIR with a married man, or even a relationship, but I've been tempted a few times. I've had a few crushes on married men (whether the feelings were returned or not..Is another story) - but I dont' think that I could break up a marraige. It seems like a pretty selfish thing to do. I would never want to be the "other woman".
@larish (2234)
• Philippines
24 Aug 09
I have never been involved with a married man. But I have a friend who has been in this situation. She was even given a promise by this guy that his married is already for annulment (we don't have divorce here). Since they cannotget married yet without the annulment papers, they decided to live-in. After 3 years, the guy left my friend for another girl. leaving her a son who just turn 2 years old then. The child is now 8 years old and had never seen her father. My friend is the only parent the child has. She was lucky to have a stable job so that she can finance the needs of the child. I have mentioned this story because just like you, I really don't understand this man who would just walk out of a woman's life just like that. I was also thinking if this kind of man has any conscience to make them realize if what they are doing is righteous.
@zoey7879 (3092)
• Quincy, Illinois
22 Aug 09
This has happened to me three times now :( When I was quite young, I began dating a guy and I found out a week later he was married... I felt pretty uncomfortable and a day or two later gave him the "It's not fair to your wife and kids" spiel. I had a married guy chase me.. and I became very uncomfortable... we eventually ended even our friendship. And the last time.. Im just not really sure. He said he was divorced, but he was either seperated from but not divorced... divorced and later remarried, or never had divorced the woman that I know now as his wife. I was in such disbelief, especially since I didn't find out until two years later....