Do you remember family and friends birthday?

LOL, I guess we do, but they sound so hurt when you forget, if someone don't call me I don't care, their are people out here that really care about the amount of birthday wishes they get, I also forgot my godson's birthday, his mom called me a couple of weeks ago, his b-day was in july, I felt so stupid, I give up, there is no hope for us, we need AA or maybe even AAA, thanks for the response, if you come up with any ideas let me know, we have to change this, together we can make this happen.

Whew thanks for this response, glad to know I am not the only one, it does stink, especially when they always remember yours, it is a weakness for me as well, my family their birthdays are embedded in my brain, what can we do to fix it? he said I should have a book, I said that book will be in my purse it won't help lol He is really sweet, always remember my b-day, he made me feel a little better about it, still sucks, have to figure something out. thanks again for the response.

Hi Hatley, Well you said you usually remember I am sure she understood, after posting this I will do better, I have some wonderful suggestions, so I have no excuse, like I told another poster I knew my brothers anniversary was coming, I told my daughter not to forget, she said mom you are late, that is so sad, you know what else my family knows how I am, you would think they would help me out, hmm oh well, thanks for being my friend...

Hi, I use to do the same thing with my phone, the phone I have now is useless when it comes to things like that, I will do better from this day on, I have so many days to remember in the coming months but it is mainly so those days are programmed in my head I can never forget them, thanks for the response

I'm hopeless at remembering birthdays. Well thats not quite true. I often know there's a birthday coming up but on the day I often get so involved in what i'm doing that i forget. So now i put important dates on my phone. It seems to be working, cause you feel so bad when you forget.

The best way that I find easy to remember is to mark down loved ones birthday's on a wall calendar. Then check it periodically for the birthdays of that given month. Then I send emails or mail out birthday cards through my local post office.

That is great, I will try from day day forth to remember, I know it hurts the people in my life when I forget, I felt really bad yesterday when he said I thought I would have a email, I mean really not like I am not online, who can't send a email to someone that always remember your day, matter fact let me write yesterdays date down somewhere so I won't forget it next year. thanks for the response, any ideas how I can remember these days easily?

Hi keola12 You know what thats the why we use to do things years ago, what happen to those days I think cell phones came along and that was it for the wall calender, great advice thanks

You mean, today is birthday?? Well, Happy Birthday to you then!! May you will have an excellent year ahead. Have a BLAST!!

Hi corrycrystal Thank you so much , so far it is great just being here in mylot makes my day, no matter what day it is

Hi corrycrystal You are so right when it comes to family someone will make sure you don't forget the special day, He forgave me right after I posted this he finally answer my instant message he knows how I am so its like I don't care because I do, but my mind is going like 100 miles an hour sometimes I don't remember alot of things, its o.k today is my day wonder how many people will remember me lol, he did he gave me a gift and a Birthday wish you see they love me lol

if you have to remember your friends birthday then insert the reminder in ur phone that will ring on that particular date of ur friend birthday .this is one way many people used to remember it........happy mylotting

Hello my friend Unfortunately I have a really crappy phone right now it does not have this feature yes I knowyou cant imagine seince most phones have this lol thanks for the advice I will come up with something I like the idea of making a list putting all the names on the fridge I will see this everyday and eventually this way might help the dates to stick

o.k well that is not so bad, even a party does not do it for me, I don't think it is because I don't care, it more I have so much things going on in my head that simple things like peoples birthday don't stand out to me, family is different, everyday people I don't know, it has been this way for so long, not sure how to go about fixing it, and ideas?

Hello my friend How are you? I know what you mean my friend, I can't count the people this year alone that have made me feel bad for forgetting their birthdays what can we do, next year I will do better, I have a friends birthday coming up on the 7th I must remember her day my daughters birthday is tomorrow but you already know I won't forget that lol I have a few family memebers again will not forget but the 7th can't forget this day

Hello ladyblonde I use to do that, it really helps I know, I need a better phone my phone is really out dated lol thanks for sharing

Hello ladyblonde That seems to be the norm for most people my phone stinks unfortunately so I don't have this feature lol Thanks for the response I will check out the link thanks for sharing.

beauty of a person does not depend on how he/she looks like. it depends on how much he/she is perfect or benign from the heart. i am clapping for your memory. clap.....clap....clap actually in my location b'days are not celebrated with a great interest. i am also not interested to celebrate it, lol

LOL,o.k gotcha, where I am from people love to be told happy birthday, I never remember to tell them, I don't have a whole lot of friends to begin with , but the few associates I do have, they feel bad when I don't acknowledge their birthdays. goodnight for the how many time

LMAOOOO, I am so sleepy and you are making me laugh, you said you don't remember family members birthday either, I am sure that makes them really upset, if friends gets upset imagine how family will feel lol you are so funny, I can say I do remember family, not all family just my Mom/Sisters/brother/Daughter etc etc, are we suppose to remember aunts/uncles/cousins, if so I am screwed big time,this is really sad, so you need to be the leader of our new club, we all suck, lets come up with a name... You are really funny, sometimes I forget my age, I be like Mom how old am I again lol, Wow we are a mess,have not done that for a while let me make that clear, lol

Hello taztheone Thats how it is for me my family never forget, friends not so good lol but they all know this and they forgive me I am sweet they have too forgive me lol Thanks for sharing with me can we be friends?

Hi my friend voldrox, I was looking for your response, how are you doing? I use to do that, and it really worked out great, the phone I have now is so old and useless I need a program to remind the stupid thing to ring, lol my other phone was good for this reason, all is forgiven for now, I will do better with this from now I will make sure of it. I am enjoying my time here as well, I want to make 400 post now, my grandson is back so I have to share the pc with him, he like to watch videos on youtube, I told him I will give it to him at 2, it is now 2;23 lol, trying to respond to posters he does not understand lol

Hi kitty you see why i raised one of my discussions, coz i don't get the email notification when you post something in return, now here i am the responder so i got the email and am responding to you.... . . . i am doing fine kitty:) hmmm that is some pace i have to say! keep it up, you are reely getting addicted here and i can see that:) i have been doing great too... nice to see you around, you will have to have a peek back at this post to see that i have replied...anyways i am glad you are enjoying here and you are progressing at quite some pace! have a nice day and keep smiling

Hi My friend, I didn't get notification for this response, hmmm, anyway glad to see you whenever I see you, I will go though your discussions today, I responded to everyone so far, yes I am really enjoying my time here, so you think I am moving at a great pace? that is great coming from you,I am trying lol I want to get as many post as I can now, once I am back to work I won't have the time.

Hello my friend It really is too much on the brain, how are we suppose to remember all this lol I did get some pretty good ideas really is too much, I could imagine if I in-laws they would be mad at me, I would be right in their face and never say happy whatever if no one told me lol whew Thanks for responding.

Hi olepmis No I don't feel so bad anymore he made me feel better, he knows I will never do this on purpose, my day is coming up soon lets see how many people forget me lol

Hi blackbriar, LMAOOOOO , thats right, we don't do this on purpose I am glad your hubby understand, this is not intentional at all, we just can't remember, my memory has gotten worst over the years, family I never forget, associates hmmm, but as you say, Happy Birthday to everyone that has a birthday in aug,sept,oct,nov,dec there can't say I forgot now , if only it were that easy thanks for the response.

Hi Babymycah, I use to do the cell phone thing, it was great, maybe I should start using that old phone just for that, I have a sorry phone I can't set reminders, but I still have the old phone guess I can do that as well, had some great suggestions, I love the note on the fridge, that will work for me I am sure.

Hi rocket2020, You are so right it is really hard to remember everyones birthday beside family and really close friends, when you say tag what do you mean by that? thanks for the response

Hi lightning09, Yes family no worries, associates thats another story, its not something I think about honestly, I have so much on my mind, if you don't remind me the night before I will not think of it, sad but true. thanks for the response

Hi Robin We are over it now, he is cool no worries , thanks for the encouraging words always nice to hear

Hi uchihamadaraxxx, Wow are you serious? I didn't forget hers for the whole day, she didn't give me a chance, I guess she knows how I am so she figured I forgot her, did you forget for the whole day?