Battle of Wits - with Grandparents

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I responding to a discussion earlier, that reminded me of a situation I had, about rules and grandparents maintaining certain rules with your kids... I teach my son not to throw or kick balls in the house. For extremely obvious reasons! He knows the term "that's an outdoor toy" and we very seldom have issues with him in this area... Until he went to his gramma & papa's house. His papa and him began kicking a ball in the house. I began making comments like, "balls are for outside play" and "you know, you're not supposed to be playing ball in the house." These comments were made out loud and addressed to my son. But Papa just kept right on going, kicking the ball back to my son, and as a 4 year old, he would kick it back... Can you believe, at one point, Papa actually said, "Who's house is this anyways?" I mean, how completely asinine is that?? So I'm sitting there, torn between a reaction of "Well, he's MY son and the RULE is NO BALL IN THE HOUSE!" or "OH, OKAY, KNUCKLEHEAD. LET HIM WHIP THE BALL AND BREAK SOMETHING! What do I care? IT's YOUR SH*T!!" I ended up being saved by Gramma, who was there the whole time too when she finally said, "she's right, take it outside." I was completely floored... it was like he (papa)was ignoring the most basic, the most common, and the most innocent RULE because he wanted to make a point of showing me that he could make the decision himself. It was almost like he RESENTED the fact that I called him on doing something stupid and he was going to do it anyway because it was his house! I can laugh at it now, but I wanted to share it with you. We've managed to teach my son the meaning of "there's a time and a place" and I'm okay with letting certain things go when he's with his Gramma and Papa, but this was so stupid! Anyone ever had a battle like this? REAL but LAUGHABLE??