What is your darkest and happiest moment in your life?
@phillip_shiny (2330)
India
August 24, 2009 11:03am CST
Dear friends,
Everyone of us have a experience till the age which we are now. But some of the experiences are very good and some of them are really bad.
Why don't you share the darkest and the most happiest moment in your life? Enjoying everyday life is really a part to learn in our day-to-day life. But we need to go through some darkest moment in our life. Because its life..
I too have the darkest moment some months ago and I really faced death at the moment. But God saved me from that and till now I am alive. The happiest moment in my life is the day I got my first job after 2 years of tribulation after my studies.
Please share your experiences.... Do you have any of these kinda experiences?
Cheers.... Have a good day always...
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14 responses
@simonelee (2715)
• China
31 Aug 09
hhmmmm... I think those moment when i can't find my self. I was so lost not knowing that i was so miserable finding something that I don't know what really it is. I was to blind to seek for my soul, so negative. You know what, I only found happiness when I went to the church and release my burdens and ask HIM to answer all the questions that keeps me bothering. I left the church with a paint of smile on my face. I think that was the happiest moment of my life. When I found God in my heart. Now, so easy for me to overcome dark moments.
@phillip_shiny (2330)
• India
31 Aug 09
Yes... I can't agree more than this. In church I too see the true happiness. Most of my burden gets less only in my church and with God the father.... Really i love to be in church which gives the reall peace...
Welll said.... Cheers... have a nice day...
@simonelee (2715)
• China
1 Sep 09
no one can understand what we feel but only HIM. He also the one who can truly help us. It so good to sing HIS songs from the heart with other preachers, it lessen the heartaches. Have a nice day, phillip.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
24 Aug 09
The darkest moment of my life was when I was 14-years-old, it was the day that my dad passed away. The reason that it was the darkest moment of my life is that it seemed like my life had literally ended at that moment, not only had my father passed away, my mother was like a zombie for a time because of her loss.
On the brighter side of things, there are two happiest moments of my life. These were the days that my daughter and my son were born. It was like seeing things come full circle. Additionally, both of my children were very healthy so that made it an even happier moment.
@phillip_shiny (2330)
• India
24 Aug 09
Hi dorannmwin,
Thats really nice to hear from you. Really the new born babies wipe away the tears of the darkest moment in life. Well said. Life is full of experiences...
Cheers... Have a nice day always...
@coolcat123 (4387)
• India
25 Aug 09
my darkest or depressive moment was when i lost a match in badminton to my opponent, i wsa playing for my college and we lost the match even though i know that i was a much better player than my opponent but that day my luck was not on my side.
my happiest moment was when i won a gold ring in a draw. we all were very happy on that day.
@EliteUser (3964)
• Australia
22 Sep 09
Hey,
I haven't really had any dark or really happy moments in my life. My life has mainly been really boring. If my life would be drawn as a graph, the graph would probably have a straight line showing the excitement. Make sure you have a good day, God bless and Happy Lotting!!
@rachel2009 (35)
• China
25 Aug 09
For me the darkest monment is that i lost my young brother when I was in college, and he was only 20 years old. I found that all is in the dark at that time!
The happiest one is when my son was born, which brought me hope and sunshine!
@albertjemi (100)
• India
26 Aug 09
the darkest days of my life was when i was away from my girl for three years and never saw here when i was studying . it was really terrible days hope you would understand . the happiest moment was when i got my first job after 25 interviews and the saw my girl and got her back. wow its so nice to think that moments
@grecychunny26 (9483)
• Philippines
25 Aug 09
My darkest time of my life is when my family or even me alone have a problem. I usually pray to God for guidance because I know i can't do it alone. Whenever I have problems of my own, I usually hide it with me until I found a solution. I hide my problems, I solve it on my own. I can take my problems like work problems or personal problems, what i can't take are our family problems which I am weaker inside but stronger on the outside. The happiest time of my life was when my younger brother was born in 1992, when I received a scholarship for college and when I graduated a degree
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
24 Aug 09
hi phillip my darkest moment of my entire life was nov.7 of last year.
we sat around staring at each other my son and I, our lives in shambles because one my son had lost his job earlier,we ran outof money,were behind on the rent,were evicted and had to move out by midnightof Nov7,and we found out that not only could the moving truck
'not fit all our belongings in it, the storage place my son had rented with what little money we could scourge waSnt big enough for the rest of our belongings.this seemed to us to be the very last straw,we lost so much valuable belongings as we no longer had a home,and couldnt get them in the storage we had paid for,and had no more money to buy more storage.I was too sick at heart to even cry.
my happiest wellnow it hasnt come yet. I Am in this retirement
center as we didnt have any home,my son is with three other men who are also out of work in A gov.paid apartment. so we are both safe but no its not the happiest day of my life,I do not want to be here,I want my own apartment again with my son
@lsnggrp (180)
• United States
25 Aug 09
The darkest moment in my life was and still is losing my younger brother. It's been a couple of years now and I still am not over it. I think about him every day and every day it hurts to think about him. It's one of the hardest things I have had to go through in my life, I feel like I'm about to go crazy whenever I think about him. I miss him very much.
Happiest moment, I don't know. I guess when the Red Sox won the world series in 2004 and when the Celtics won that 2008 championship. I have never been happier in my life.
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
25 Aug 09
I would have to say that the day my daughter was born was the happiest day of my life. I was unable to have children for a really long time and to hold my baby in my arms after six long years of trying was a dream come true!
The day my husband was admitted to a psychiatric facility due to psychotic episodes was a pretty grim day; I was so worried about him, I feared he had a brain tumour; he ended up with a diagnosis of bipolar disorder at that was the beginning of a rather difficult time to say the least but you are right we need to go through the darkness in order to see and appreciate the light.
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
24 Aug 09
Yes, you are right. Let us talk about the darkest and the brightest side of our life. A good sharing from our experiences set us free and we can be an inspirations to others or we can guide them into a good way of life. Well, I have also the positive side and negative side of my life. First, my darkest moment was when I almost leaved my family because of financial problem. That was 15 years ago.It is really bad. But afterI saw my husband offered a sacrifices to God and embraced all the pains and cries of begging to Him just to make our family united and happy again.He spend so much time of waiting and praying hard for the good of his family. From then, I suddenly turned into a new one that my mind enlightened by the Holy Spirit.And that was my brightest side of my life.Happened, turning to God again and never to come back at the darkest side.
@bingchen (1119)
• China
25 Aug 09
this is the life between the hard and happy moment,so i have this feeling for it.the darkedt moment in my life,i thought that i sleep in the street,i feel very cool and fear that misfortune happened,i have no money to live hotel,so this make me know that vagabondage is very terrible.the happiest thing i think that i can work and live very well and i would be happy everyday,this is very important for me have good mood to work and live,there is no money to give me happyness.
@polo_princess (803)
•
24 Aug 09
I think my darkest moment so far was when i broke up with my ex boyfriend of 5 years, it was incredibly tough and i had to walk away from everything, my home, my car, all i had were my clothes, it was so horrible but i knew i had to do it so i could be happy.
My happiest moment was when my daughter was born, it was the most amazing feeling in the world i couldnt describe it, when you give birth and you see your child for the very first time, it is amazing.
@Nanslife (6)
• United States
25 Aug 09
I would have to say the darkest moment of my life developed over the course of the first half of this year. My 6 year old daughter has been suffering from mental illness that we had been having a hard time diagnosing. When everything came to a head at the end of May and she had a major psychotic break and had to be hospitolized for over two weeks. It turned out she has a severe case of ADHD, separation anxiety and mood disorder. It was the first time in her short life that she was ever away from home and it was the most heartbreaking time of our lives. Since the diagnosis we have been able to medicate her better and things have been better and we have gotten intensive therapy for all of us as well as her it is still a rough road but I think we are on our way to healing. The happiest moments of my life were seeing her and my son's beautiful face's for the very first times. It was as if it were only yesterday and there is nothing I would change about those moments:).