Do you change how you talk to your Friend with Benefits?

Oops! Now I feel like a dummy. When you get the 'your friend started a discussion' email...it doesn't tell you what the category is. I guess the answer would depend on how 'good' you were, and if you were really married, but didn't tell me.

*LOL* What if neither partner was married? And you had a pre-existing friendship?

Many times friends end up going to the 'next level', or even become a full-blown relationships. There's certainly nothing wrong with that. Personally I think that relationships that have a solid foundation in friendship and trust have the best chance of succeeding. It's the best of both worlds if your partner is also your best friend. Sometimes moving from one level to the next can seem entirely natural, other times there is a bit of apprehension involved. Afterall, what happens to a great friendship if trying out the 'next level' doesn't work out? Are you still friends, or does this ruin the friendship? It can go wither way, and it's different for everybody. Open and honest communication is really important, and best if not done during the heat of passion. I guess I've gotten away from your original question of frequency of texting. I would assume that immediately after 'benefits' are added that there will be more texting going back and forth. After a while, it would probably slow back down to the 'pre-benefit' period. That's not necessarily a bad thing, it just happens as you build comfort with eachother.