how do you heal a broken heart?
By acie_21
@acie_21 (5633)
Philippines
4 responses
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
26 Aug 09
hello acie my friend!
actually, i am not really sure! haha...coz when i feel like i am broken hearted, i just let it pass...hehehe i think i have a heart of stone. coz no matter how painful i feel i know by the next few days it will be gone...haha
i think time can heal any wounds...but of course the memory will always be there...when you are broken hearted, just let the feelings go, move on and live your life...hehe
always look on the brighter side!
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
26 Aug 09
HEart of stone?? IT's not easy being that, unless u have been hurt very badly in the past?? IT's always good to be able to move on in life, and instead of thinking about those bad memories, leave them behind along with time, and only bring those fond memories foward in life.. hehe
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
26 Aug 09
hmmmm...its a difficult question! hehe
but i think its a different thing when we are already married. its really painful and heart breaking when the one who cheated us i s our husbands..for they are our husband already...you know, in our religion we don't have divorce...hehehe
so i think, in this case, although its painful, you should learn to forgive...of course its not easy...and its up to you if you can...to forgive and forget are two things that's not easy to do when we are being cheated...i think, as far as i am concern. i can forgive...but when, only time can tell...forget, hmmm never...
in this situation, your love for him will be tested...how much you love him...coz if you love, you can forgive...
when cheating occurs during the time that we are still bf/gf...its much easier...to let the feeling go and move on and look on the brighter side...and dump him! haha
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
26 Aug 09
how about..when it comes to our relationship?
like what if your husband cheats on you..will you still able to move on and
just let the feelings go?
looking at the brighter side?
me i dont know....it all depends on the situation..
thanks for sharing!
best!
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
25 Aug 09
I have not heard about this song before, but i do know of another song, FIxing a broken heart.. hehe ^_^
There are many ways in healing a broken heart, and the most important factor of all, will be time ^_^ Times washes off everything, and that one must have the courage to move on again in life.. There's no point in saying 'i've gotten over her/him', but that person is refusing to start a new relationship for fear of failure again!! haha
THus, face the failure bravely, let happy memories be flowing in again, overshadowing all the bad memories.. For in our life, is not evolving round just him/her ^_^
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
25 Aug 09
I will check it out ^_^
NOpe, not for me, because i need time to heal.. hehe ^_^ I'm not somebody to love and forget so easily.. haha =D Many ple have different ways of getting over a relationship and thus we can really judge if they are doing in the right way or not.. hehe
For i know, your love life is a very colorful one.. haha =D
@whizkid08 (715)
• India
26 Aug 09
Huh, have had this experience a number of times! Well, in my case, I prefer to engage myself in some work I like the most (designing) as it helps me rise up and thus 'heals' the incurable wounds of my heart!!
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
27 Aug 09
hi whizkid...
how long had you moved on?
was it easy for you?
yes..doing you loved most..keeping you head busy of something
helps a lot..but after the busy work..its just lonliness always
enters...little by little..
hard to stay away from the lonliness that wounded your heart so much..
friends helped a lot too...as well as your family..
keep posting!