what are the commonest mistakes that one should avoid to get his or her ex back

South Africa
August 25, 2009 11:58am CST
Women often have themselves to blame in some instances for the break-up they experience in their relationship. Women should understand that getting their men back could be a tricky process but there will always be a way of fixing things up and no matter what the circumstances ,winning back your male partner is all about making the correct moves and avoiding the critical wrong moves. Over-contacting your ex boyfriend is one of the wrong moves you can make while trying to win him back. You shouldn’t be contacting your ex in anyway even when he has promised to remain your friend. You should try and avoid him in any way to let him realize that you have accepted the break-up in good faith, the more you are not visible to him, the more he feels your absence and most when do break-up in order to watch the reactions of their partners and when they notice that you don’t show any sign of guilt, they will definitely respect you the more. One of the worst thing you can do after a break-up is to cry and beg your partner to reconsider his decision. Crying is a sign of weakness and your ex will always capitalize on that to hurt you the more or even become more aggressive with you. Crying and begging will make your ex lose respect for you and it will only show how desperate you are. Threatening your ex with a come-back deadline is one big error that might ruin your relationship and a happy reunion. Don’t say things that will hunt you later while being angry with your ex.
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@kingsix (46)
• Qatar
25 Aug 09
Crying is a normal expression when you feel down. It is okey to cry and let your emotional go. Begging is another thing. Sometimes begging for reconsideration to preserve your relationship is not good most especially if you are guilty. I agree winning back your ex should be planned well. It is well said, "Head was made above your heart." So think first before you talk or before you make any moves. Do not forget not to loose your self esteem in this endeavor. Baboosh.