Iam having the worst broken heart experience. What to do?

tell her you just cannot handle what she is expecting you to do and that if she really cared she would let you alone. Not everyone can forget their pasts and even less often can things go back to the way they where before.

Hello friend, I do not want to be harsh but you have to move on in life and divert your attention. This thing keeps happening with us all the time.. it has happened to me as well. We just have to be practical in our approach towards life and learn our lessons.You have to convince your friend as well that she has to ensure her new family is happy.

That's really heartless of her. I think in order to heal and move past it, you need to cut off all contact with her. Block her e-mail address if you need to, you don't have to put up with being treated like that.

ouch......I would hate to see that.....infact I had this thought few weeks back of our ex-lovers getting married and started a discussion on that and got many surprising responses.......you can take a look at it in my profile...... It is really bad to see what is happening to you......and even i would have been in deep pain if the same would have happened to me.....and trust me what she is doing is not really ethical......she is putting you into more pain and agony......now that things cant change and they are done with.....why don't you go ahead and send her an e-mail back saying you are happy for them and congratulate her......and tell her what you feel and that you would not like to see her mails again.......its just a suggestion I don't know if you feel that same or if you want to still be in touch with her......but if I were you, I could have never been in touch with her.....as I would have never been able to concentrate in my work and on my life...... So do the best that you could........you are your own master so do the best that you think will be good for your life !!!! TC

Brother, Just remember that girls comes & goes. If you are deeply hurt because you dont have much girls in your life, then don't worry, time has a great ability to heal wounds. Now Life will move on & never break your heart because of a girl. Learn to be practical & try next girl. Remember never keep your heart over a girl, no matter how good she is!! this is the golden rule. Now stop being sad & search the next one. All the best!!

Think about these: 1. If she so respects you and would like you to stay as her friend, why did she do so through *email*? A phone call could've been a better alternative to this. 2. Could you really say that this person loves you (at least romantically) after finding someone else *after a month*? Pardon me for sounding too harsh, but you're just this girl's scape goat, an insurance policy. 3. The email updates are obviously done in bad taste. Either she valued you only as a friend on the onset, or she's one heck of a user. I'd say forgetting the girl is the best solution but it all boils down to when you'll choose to let go.

It seems she never really loved you. She had intention to spend some beautiful moment at your cost. May be you deserve somebody better. Please try to get your mind from these. It is hard to forget, but try . Time will heal you. Plus block her mails.

well, u are truely in strange situation but i would suggest u to make a move..completely forgetting her is impossible but surely, stop replying and reading her mails..!!! REMEMBER BY TALKING TO HER U ARE SPOILING HER MARRIAGE TOO..!! ITS DIFFICULT SITUATION BUT U HAVE TO STOP READING HER MAILS, REPLYING THEM, CHANGE UR EMAIL, MOB NO.. many people do this..even i did, so its best to ignore her..!! move on in life.. good luck..!!

I can't understand your feelings. But don't be so upset. Let think that she is not your soulmate. Trust me, you have a better soulmate waiting for you somewhere. Try to open you heart to other girl. Don't let the previous sweet remembrance rules your way. I guess she was your first love. Forgive me if i'm wrong. No matter what happened on your past time, you must realize that you are living in present time, and you must preparing everything in your life for you future. This is the fact so don't be sad anymore. I'm a girl, and most all of my ex boyfriends are married. But i'm never think that i must upset or regret. Now i have a boyfriend who really really loves me. He is my greatest love. Being in love with him, it makes me thinking about if i got married with one of my ex boyfriend, perhaps i won't be so happy like today. So, everything happened in our life is for a reason. Sometimes we must got hurt many times until we find the true happiness. Believe that God has a good plan for you. I'm a girl and i can go my own life with smile and happy, why don't you enjoying your life with smile and happy as well? Try to find other girl, try to make as many as good moment with that new girl as well. But remember don't comparing that new girl with your ex girl friend because a girl hates to be compared with other girl. Don't hurt her heart ok? The only solution for you is you must find a new girl. You ex girl friend is married now so that's mean you have no more chance to be with her, and it shows you that she is not your soulmate. Don't try to forget her and every moment you have done with her. No one can forgetting a sweet remembrance unless you got amnesia. So don't do that stupid thing. You won't success on doing it. Open your mind, open your heart, no matter what happened on your past time, do remember that as long as you are still breathing, then you life must goes on. Good luck and have a nice day. Happy mylotting.

hi madu, just a friendly advice, just move on.. it's not the end of the world friend.. maybe you are just not meant for each other and i think GOD has another girl to give you, not now but maybe sooner.. much better than her, don't be affected on those emails she do, maybe you need to change your email address from now on.. janebeth.

That is the most insensitive thing that a girl would do to you. well, it's your fault you didn't talk to her for a month. probably for that one month she was on some one else s shoulders. i doubt she really liked the guy. if so, this proves that the girl has just you for a blanket. in that happens to me, i would surely delete every contact info that i have, like email, cell phone and get busy with work and hang out with friends..even if it's hard for me to move on with out i still gotta try as she makes me more miserable and it's putting me down..i bet she would look for you again if she get's screwed up with his hubby..

Hello madugulagopi, I sympathize with your break up, everyone of us pass that stage of painful relationship, I can say that to will pass in Time. On my experience I just recognize and accept the pain and let the time heal the wound. It may not apply to you but it does on me. Just be happy with her.

well dude, come on look at the bright side, at least you are still breathing?! am i right? as long as your lung still able to inhale and exhale oxygen then everything will be alright. I have once suffered broken heart just like you, and i feel that life is so unfair, and i can not endure the pain. But look at me now, i am alright. My advice is, 1. find some activities that distract you from her (trust me it works), the only reason you cant put her out of your mind because YOU ENJOY THE PAIN.. am i right? you may deny it, but seek it to your deepest part of your heart and you will know that i am right 2. Accept it, well you may try this old phrase "dont ever love someone with all of your heart, just make a little space to accept that he/she is not yours" You will be able to get it over soon:) Let time wash away your pain

Man, sorry to hear :/ Well, one of the easiest way of getting her out of your mind yould be taking up some new activities, sports, whatever(smoking and drinking don't count). Or you could try to relax and if you find someone you like more than her:that's the easiest way. About the harrassing part: I'm sure your email provider has a function, which allows you to block e-mails coming from certain addresses, i.e. spam and junk mail. Try to give it a go :)

Hello, well you csn always delete any more email you get from her before reading what she has to say.If you tell her how those email make you feel and she still sends email "bragging" about how her life is so wonderful now since she married someone else try saying the time is not right for you right now to think about staying friends with her.If you want to keep her in your life try that.If you want her to just stop emailing you block her from getting anymore email to your email account.Or make another email address she doesn't know and don't give it to her.

mate she is taking revenge over u n nothin else...she is no longer your love..understand it and kick her memories out of your life..had she loved u,she would have never left u.never would she enjoy with someone else..and never would mail her enjoyment to u and torture u.. so do understand her intentions n leave happily