How do you go about meeting people?
By jagadi
@jagadi (12)
India
August 25, 2009 1:34pm CST
I feel pretty good about myself.But this is a big world and it is easy to get lost in the crowd.So you see for me meeting people is something which requires effort.Doesn't matter how good i look,passively waiting for others to throw themselves your way doesn't work. But all that is past, i have implemented few basic principle of life.
- Best way to meet people is to put yourself in places where there is likely to be other people who share your interest and values.
- Once you are with people initiate conversation by asking questions,commenting on the situation, asking or offering an opinion, expressing some interest, showing some concern.
- After you have engaged someone in conversation, let him or her know you're listening and interested. Make eye contact, adopt an open posture, reflect the feelings you hear, paraphrase what he or she says.
- And again remember no risk no gains. Don't be discouraged if you and other person don't click first and every time.
Hope this will benefit someone. Please share if you have better suggestions .....
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@Shawchert (1094)
• United States
25 Aug 09
sadly I'm the type of person that has nothing in common with "everyday" people, so they tend to think me strange and shy away from me. I'm just different and quite anti social even though I do like people I like being a lone as well. How do I meet people? Well since it's hard for me to go up to people and talk to them I tend to meet them through people I already know like my sister got me talking to one of my friends who got me talking to another, but I don't tend to associate much with them there are VERY few people that I get along with and actually want to see every day which tends to never happen because they are always so busy with someting or another. anyway friends are always cherished even if the ones I have now tend to get on my nerves because they always want to be there around me 24/7 and there are times where I want nothing to do with them.
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