Baby sitting - fun or pain ?
By bewitched13
@bewitched13 (792)
India
August 26, 2009 4:39am CST
I baby sit my grand daughter when my daughter goes for work. She is a cute little pie and really have fun with her. Although feeding and putting her to sleep is a bit straining as the child is very playful. But otherwise she is very cooperative and never gives me any problem. A little kid around the house keeps you on your toes but i enjoy it. How about you? Have you done baby sitting for any baby in your life. How was your experience? Would you like to share it with mylotters?
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25 responses
@indybaty (368)
• Panama
27 Aug 09
It wouldnt be a problem for me to babysit a baby, I have a lot of practice with my 10 month old, as long as mom lets me know on the baby's habits, sleeping pattern and feedings...
I was babysitting at one point my brother's son, he's 1 year old and boy oh boy, that boy was a HURRICANE!!, had to follow him around making sure he didnt electrocuted since his level of curiousity was very high, but I totally loved it! My son and him were playing together, singing together, for sleeping and all I had to split myself in 2! I have to say it was a great experience!!
@bewitched13 (792)
• India
27 Aug 09
When there are two kids you can have a common game which both of them occupied. I understand some children have extremely high energy levels that you have no energy left by the end of the day. So you also had fun.
@shantha_45 (332)
• India
27 Aug 09
Hi, I never had a chance to do babysitting
except for my daughter when she was a child.
Oh it was not baby sitting but baby running.
She used to keep me on my toes all the time.
Still I enjoyed every bit. Myself being a working woman
never had a chance to do baby sitting for any other's baby.
Happy mylotting
@bewitched13 (792)
• India
28 Aug 09
Do not lose heart.You can always baby sit your grand children after your retirement and enjoy all the fun missed earlier.
@bewitched13 (792)
• India
27 Aug 09
So waiting to have a baby in the family to baby sit. You shall soon have it and can enjoy having the fun.
@divkris (1156)
• India
27 Aug 09
Well i love baby sitting and i would say it is fun. There is nothing in the world that can cheer you except for children/toddlers. I have baby sat my niece, nephew and sister when they were young, especially when my aunts/mom want to go shopping without their kids.
It is fun to experiment different tactics to keep the baby occupied. Some like watching TV and some like drawing, a few like singing songs/rhymes and a few like eating. One simply has to understand what the baby likes and allow it to do - but i make sure it is productive and nothing destructive.
I like to I have a 1.4 year old kid but i can't say i babysit - i would rather call it a parenting
@bewitched13 (792)
• India
28 Aug 09
So you agree baby sitting is fun.o have the experience in it. So you can also baby sit your child with a parent point of view.
@bewitched13 (792)
• India
27 Aug 09
So you want the kids to be obedient!!!! Too much. They have to do it when they will be in school. Let them have the fun and frolic at least when they are kids. Kids are enjoyable when they are naughty.
@seanbryan (349)
• United Arab Emirates
27 Aug 09
Hi there!
I never had a baby yet but soon he is coming we'll see him in two months time. I'm so excited can't imagine how it is to be a babysitter of my own kid. I used to babysit by nephews and niece but only for a day or two when their mother is out and in such a short time I really enjoyed looking after them. Good day!
@bewitched13 (792)
• India
27 Aug 09
Wish you a healthy baby and happy baby sitting soon. As you have the experience you will have fun baby sitting your own kid.
@kkanaka (886)
• Singapore
27 Aug 09
Baby sitting is not all fun but also pain, its a very responsible job.
Although its your daughter's child, its still another person's child so the responsibility is more, because she might ask you questions when things go wrong.
But still its a very satisfying job, I like to babysit, but the truth is I am working myself and leave my 3+ year old child at the child care centre, I was not working when he was younger and enjoyed nursing him and spending time with him very much... have a nice time....
@bewitched13 (792)
• India
27 Aug 09
Although it is a responsible job i feel daughters have more confidence in their mother. Till date my daughter has not questioned me and hope the same in future. We enjoy doing it as it is our grand children and look after the child better than in the baby care centres. Right. So they should be grateful to us for the help we render.
@animegirl334 (3263)
• United States
27 Aug 09
I babysit for family and for money. To be honest, babysitting for another family with pay is easier and so much better. The kids are more polite to you and they do what you tell them to. When I babysit my young cousins, they do not hesitate to jump on to my head and pull my hair. When I tell them to eat their food, they don't listen. When I yell at them, they threaten to tell my mom. GRRRrrr.....family
@bewitched13 (792)
• India
27 Aug 09
So you say baby sitting for others is fun and baby siting for relatives is pain LOL. I think you can be more stern and strict with your cousins than with other children. Anyway i wish you patience when it comes to baby sitting your cousins.
@ladym33 (10979)
• United States
26 Aug 09
I did home day care for 5 years when my two older kids were little. I had one 5 year old and one 7 year old and all the other kids were under 4. My two and two other little ones. I loved watching them all, but I was happy to see their parents at the end of the day. For the last few years I have been the one with the baby, but he is 5 now. I have not babysat a little baby in some time. Most of my friends and relatives are done having babies. There might be some babies soon as a couple of my friends kids just got married, so maybe I will get the chance to watch one of their babies, that would be nice.
@bewitched13 (792)
• India
27 Aug 09
So you have the experience and patience to look after the babies. I understand that you have been a dedicated baby sitter. Good luck will get a chance again soon.
@daliaj (5674)
• India
27 Aug 09
I have never done baby sitting in my life. I don't have any kids. I think I will like it for sometime, but doing it continuously for a long time is a pain. But, mothers and grand mothers have no other choice, they have to do. We do it even though it is kind of tiring sometiems since we love the kid a lot.
@bewitched13 (792)
• India
27 Aug 09
Unless you have physical problem or fatigue a baby can never tire you. You never know how the day passes off. Yes they keep you on your toes but it is fun. You have not had the fruit of baby siting so feel it is tiring. Once you have a baby you can see that it is not a matter of choice but a matter of chance. Wish you a baby and happy baby sitting soon.
@shimanaja (493)
• Indonesia
27 Aug 09
I baby sit my own children all by myself, and like you said, I did enjoy it.
However troublesome child care, but i love to be their mother.
I remember when my kids as your grand daughter age, it was very excitment moment.
Now my kids are about 6,5 years and 5 years old. I always enjoyed spending time with the children.
@bewitched13 (792)
• India
27 Aug 09
So you are a patient and dedicated mother. Have a nice time with your children.
@iterjohn (34)
• India
27 Aug 09
No...i haven't done babysitting in my life....but i want to becoz i love babies....oh my god..they are so cute...i simply love them....they are so innocent...u r so lucky that u got the chances of baby sitting of ur daughter and ur grand daughter. But i have heard that when someone sees his/her grandchildren then its the happiest moment of anyone's life...is that right?
@bewitched13 (792)
• India
27 Aug 09
Yes you feel very happy when you see your second generation and it is fun to baby sit them. Wish a you a happy baby siting soon.
@marcosdamata (83)
• Brazil
27 Aug 09
I'd go for "both". I have tons of experience in taking care of babies and young kids and it can be a pleasure or a terror in same proportions. Kids are walking bombs of instinct and desires, and they can be really cute and gracious, but they can make ANYONE lose their patiance. I have a lot of patience but sometimes I just loseit.
@bewitched13 (792)
• India
27 Aug 09
Yes they are the real test of patience but it is always fun to be with them. Their way of learning new things daily make us happy and we also enjoy it.
@polkadotbettie (4)
• United States
26 Aug 09
I used to love babysitting when I was younger. Loved to play with the kids, and could be endlessly patient with them. The hard thing now is trying to find a babysitter for my son that will be as good to him as I was to those kids!
@bewitched13 (792)
• India
27 Aug 09
Hiring a baby sitter is a very difiicult task nowadays and are also very expensive. Some how i have always had the doubt about how far they will be dedicated in their job. Why don't you ask you mom or mom in law to baby sit your son. They may be happy to be in the company of their grand child.
@madhuvamsi (1185)
• India
26 Aug 09
I love to be baby sit but never done a job professionally. But recently my aunt who is neighbour to my house whose granddaughter comes to my house regularly and she is just 1 year old. She likes to spend with me because I play with her.. I love helping mothers whose kids are very young. I do it because I like kids and baby very much. The way they react to us and it is not that easy to build bondage with a kid too. I am talking about kids who are not mine..
@bewitched13 (792)
• India
27 Aug 09
Babies whether they are our own or others kids once they get attached to us get along very well and is easy to manage. So you a bit of social service also by looking after your aunt's kid. Keep it up.
Happy mylotting.
@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
26 Aug 09
Well, babies are a wonderful sights to behold. i once care to my sisters fraternal twin babies, with the help of my youngest sister. As my eldest sister could not care to the two of her twin babies. me and my youngest sister volunteer to become nannies. They are really pretty to look, with good scent, innocent look, little cute small fingers and legs and have to be burp after feeding. The only problems, when the other twin get sick, the other gets infected too. They are very fragile and you need to be beside their bed most of the times. That you even forget to take care of yourself and your needs. They need a lot of dedication in which may be a boring for too long to take, especially if the one who takes cares are still young and inexperienced nannies. It will be both a combination of cheers and pain. but, all babies looks cute, innocent and so adorable!!
@bewitched13 (792)
• India
27 Aug 09
I can understand how it is looking after twins as to care of one baby is a full time job. You need a lot of patience and dedication to look after twins. My sister in law's friend had triplets and had a gala time with the babies that she handed over one to her mother and another to her mother in law to baby sit. She kept only one baby with herself to be looked after.
@tundeemma (894)
• South Africa
26 Aug 09
i think its a combination of both, as a man i do thing babysitting is both fun and painful, fun when the kids are happy and painful when they start to misbehave and make the whole place look horrible, i like playing board games and outdoor games with them and together we can make some cookies but when they get violent, that really makes me sick
@bewitched13 (792)
• India
27 Aug 09
Yes as a man you will have both fun and pain but with little bit of knack you can manage them tactfully. My husband can manage kids better than me and my grand daughter is more attached to him.
@yogambal_64 (1014)
• India
26 Aug 09
Baby sitting is fun so long as the kid is not adamant or tantrum throwing one, I have so far not done Baby sitting in particular, but I have just taken care of my niece's child a day or two, when my sister had been out of station, and I had to take care of her grand-daughter. It was fun with the little kid around.
@bewitched13 (792)
• India
26 Aug 09
So you got a chance to baby sit in the absence of your sister. A good start indeed. Thanks for your response.
@bewitched13 (792)
• India
27 Aug 09
May be your tolerance level and patience is a bit less the reason why you got frustrated.Does'nt matter keep trying and you will have fun.
@bewitched13 (792)
• India
27 Aug 09
So you can say you have had the experience of baby sitting rather seriously. Try to enjoy it and have fun.