Are you a choosy person?
By ucue2008
@ucue2008 (924)
Malaysia
August 26, 2009 10:29am CST
In terms of anything, person, food, friends, job or anything. I am not, as far as I am know, I am not. I take everything that were given to me without questions asked, and say thank you. I do not complain food that was not good and will try to eat it as much as I can even though people around me saying the food is tasteless. I accept other people opinion even though it contradict with mine, because if that person don't like it, why should I have to make them follow me, Its ok if I do it alone, because I am matter, it just out of courtesy that I don't say it back. Is it weird for me to behave this way? I think this way is good, because I don't create enmity to me, but create more annoying feeling. What do you think?
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@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
27 Aug 09
Hi Ucue. I would say that you are very accepting. With me, on some things I am very easy going and flexible. I try not to deliberately draw attention to myself or be contentious or judgmental.
On some of the most important things, though, things that impact myself or another in a negative way, I am much more selective, or as you said "choosey." Some things just matter too much to remain neutral for me.
I am choosey about things like respect, health, my family and how they are treated, and when it comes to anything that rips someone off or might endanger them, I am indeed adament. I respect others and expect the same in return. 
Good idea for a discussion, by the way. Have a lovely evening!
Karen@ucue2008 (924)
• Malaysia
27 Aug 09
Hello, thank you for responding
Yes, I'm a very accepting person. I try to be because once I a very rebellious and I gain nothing at the end. I guess i went from one extreme to the other extreme. Reading your response make me thinking again about my attitude. Thank you fro sharing. :)
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@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
27 Aug 09
I think it is common that we might go from one extreme to another, and then as time goes on, we find the happy "middle ground."
@ilyzium (1197)
• Canada
29 Aug 09
I would say that you are more of an agreeable or maybe accepting person, who perhaps doesn't want any conflict...? I laughed when I read the title: Am i choosy, because I'll be the first to admit that I'm very selective/picky/choosy whatever word you want to use, that's me. I'm choosy with everything from clothes, food, furniture, about deserving respect where needed, and I like to think it's just because I value quality over quantity with every aspect of my life.
