are you an emotional person or .....................
By aweins
@aweins (4199)
India
August 26, 2009 2:53pm CST
i mean a soft hearted sentimental person or a heart less creature with no emotions . i am very emotional and i cant see anyone in pain or cry. neither any human being nor any animal. do you think there are more drawbacks if you are an emotional person ? i am asking this because most of the people i had a talk with, said that it is having many drawbacks to be emotional. one should be strong hearted and with no tears coming on every hurt. i am not like that.
2 responses
@qtquiggs (50)
• United States
26 Aug 09
I am very much like you, I wear my heart on my sleeve for all to see. most times that ends up being my downfall. I can cry at the drop of the hat if you tell me something sad.
I would love to be stronger, know when i am i throw people for a loop.
I think that people see me as week and a pushover because of this and some TRY to take advantage, but they dont always get what they want.
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@aweins (4199)
• India
26 Aug 09
hi dear thanks for your response and after reading all, i really say that you are just like me. people no doubt try to take advantage of me and from me but i try not to. i think people who are strong and have less emotional or more practical also, which i feel i am also, but because i am very emotional i i just go by the way.
@sushisarah (186)
• Indonesia
26 Aug 09
I am an emotional person too. I can cry, but for a good reason, not for something i shouldn't. I turned away when seen on TV an animal was slaughtered, as cow, especially rabbit to be satay. I won't watch people tormented in the killer movie, i watched only the parts with no persecution.
But if you had been emotional for a person you didn't have too, it's not worth it. Some people thinks that as a weakness. Do you want to show your shortage to them? No. It'll make them think to use you or to attack you, you'll be a their prey in any sides.
Yes i cried when saw a love story on the DVD, but my husband did that too. Ha ha...
@aweins (4199)
• India
27 Aug 09
hi dear , i am emotional and i cant see anyone in pain. i cant even hea people's pain. i cant help helping them and my hubby says that people tell you stories to take favour from you. it can be true also but i try to avoid now. before marriage i use to believe what all people use to say. i never thought that it can be a lie too. but i am not like that now and it is because of my hubby .he changed my nature.
@sushisarah (186)
• Indonesia
27 Aug 09
Yes, they did to get your favor. We have one thing in common, i did that too before married. Man's outlook sometimes can give us courage for answers that we didn't know, it burns, ha ha...