what do you think about this?
By eM
@eLsMarie (4345)
Philippines
August 26, 2009 10:46pm CST
me and Dawn were very good friends and she is a type of girl who's into fling relationships. she has a lot of boyfriends because after a week or two, she'll decide to break up with them. 3 months ago, she met a guy named Tam2x. they had a relationship for a month and after that they broke up. for whatever reason, dawn became very much attached with this guy. in order for her to forget Tam2x, she entered another relationship with a guy named James. i thought that everything is okay because they look very much happy together. a week after, James went back to their hometown and he leave a text message to Dawn that he is already married... my gosh! now, there's this guy who's named is Ricky. he was my boyfriend's very close friend. Ricky and Dawn seemed so comfortable with each other but both of them were very much attached with their former love...
what do you think about their relationship? are their sweetness is for real or they're just trying to mend their broken heart by just playing around?
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15 responses
@srganesh (6340)
• India
27 Aug 09
I think both of them are cheating themselves.They need somebody always with them to pamper.They don't want to know what true love is and what they all need is somebody to hang out.Really they are pitiable people.Actually they don't know what they really want.Just watch them and stay away.Cheers!
@srganesh (6340)
• India
28 Aug 09
It will be better if you can stay away from them.Why should you strain your little brain for those irresponsible people.You better concentrate on your job paying no attention to them.Otherwise you too will be corrupted by their life style.So,think twice before continuing the relationship with them.Cheers!
@masteronline (834)
• Indonesia
27 Aug 09
some people may be get a difficult and complex relationship. I think that is ok if the dawn still happy. A lot of factor to make broken relationship. So, please find that factor. I called X factor. You must opened that X factor secret.
You is a Dawn close friend. That is easy for you to make that conversetion. Ask to her about X factor. So, you together can solve that problem.
That is very difficult for me to give judgement that relationship good or not. Because I don't get more data about their relationship. I hope Dawn get a good relationship now.
@masteronline (834)
• Indonesia
28 Aug 09
I hope Dawn get happiness now. That is normal for relationship. I think all people have same experience like as Dawn.
@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
27 Aug 09
Lol! That's a lot of time and effort wasted. I guess your friend should really refrain from getting in useless relationships. If she just came from a a bad break up, then i guess she must find time for herself alone without the need of involving someone on a semi-personal level like having a boyfriend good enough for two weeks. I don't think that would really work out since it's doomed from the beginning. You can't force yourself to get in a relationship just for the sake of having one. Looks to me that she hasn't matured enough on emotional level in a sense that changing a boyfriend is as easy as 1,2,3 when in fact, relationships are kind of complicated than it seems.
@lifepeace (65)
• Brazil
28 Aug 09
hey, try let it go! forget it, concentrate you to get hapiness, their lifes they'll be resolve out! don't be worry, want them to be happy!
@lifepeace (65)
• Brazil
28 Aug 09
just trying to mend their broken heart by just playing around maybe, a lot ones thinks they needs another one to be happy, dude, you don't need anyone, or anything to be happy, it's inside to out, not out to inside.
maybe they're knowing theirselfs or just play around like you said.
@wangcaiyue (20)
• China
8 Sep 09
in my opinion,they are just palying around,they are glad to keep the relationship like it.In fact ,I think they are just want to avoid responsibility.When they meet she or he,they can leave with no responsibility
@ashish1487 (137)
• India
27 Aug 09
really she has to face a lots of problem and has to suffer a lot in her relationship. now as you are saying that she has enter in a distinct relationship. in my opinion there is no need to take tension and initially its look that they both requires each other to share their feeling about their broken hearts but as days will go due to this only they will understand each other in a better way and slowly they will start liking each other. so when two needy person comes closer which are suffering from a common problem than they will understand better and thats y they will come closer to each other. so i hope now she has finally got a good life partner and this will remain forever.
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
27 Aug 09
Hi guys, for the record that is some other Dawn that she's talking about here. lol
Anyway, I don't think she was together with James for long enough to tell if the relationship was real for her. It obviously wasn't real for him. I mean he may have liked her, but telling a person they're married via text message? My gosh, how hurtful and tacky. I think he was just playing around. Maybe she will learn something from it though!
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
28 Aug 09
hi "dawn"ald!!! LOL... we were really shocked when we found out that James was already married. Dawn has no plans of telling us before the reason why they broke up and we thought that James was only her object of playing games. i liked James to be her boyfriend but i think karma has it's own way of making others be awakened.
@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
27 Aug 09
..well, maybe they are just playing around.. they both wanted somebody who could be with them in this time of their life.. So they found each other's arms.. I hope that later, they will realize how to value relationships.. After all, being into a relationship is not a joking matter but it should be taken seriously.. Their relationship today will matter in their future.. Maybe you could help your friend realize this also so that she will stop fooling men..
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
27 Aug 09
i don't have any idea on how can i be able to help her... :( i know that she won't listen... i told Ricky not to play games with Dawn. he said that he likes Dawn but he's not yet ready for another serious relationship because he's still love his x girlfriend.
@VANILLAREY (1470)
• India
27 Aug 09
I thought such girls only existed in movies. In adult movies. If I were you, I would not care what she is doing. I would search for better friends.
This is what I would do if I was in your situation. This is not what I am asking you to do.
@jayrene (2708)
• Philippines
27 Aug 09
they could be just trying to get to know each other. they are looking for someone that would give them comfort because of past relationship gone bad. they could be playing around or they could be not.
sometimes love is crazy, and its makes people do crazy things. if they are not harming each other then i think you just let them be. it's their life and they wont probably listen to you if you give them advice because of that "feelings" they have for each other.
@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
28 Aug 09
Wow, this is interesting. I had a friend like this before and everything just about that you mentioned she went through. I think that they are just trying to find someone to fill the empty hole that they're other partner is not feeling. If they aren't so happy in the relationship that they are in with the other people then they should break it off. If they have true feelings for one another they should give the other a shot, but if they're using one another then it be best they'd just break it off before someone gets hurt.
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
27 Aug 09
What is so complex about that? isn't the goal of the new modern men and women is to be happy in love?? your friend dawn i think is really mature a bit kind of girl because she doesn't waste time thinking of the guys that left her and started looking for some one else, she fiercely tried so hard to find the man that could make her happy. Isn't this what the world today is in terms of searching for love
..It's just the way it is, complex to others because they never done like that before, always in their safety net and hoping there going back to each others arms. well, dawn surely knows how to move on with her life.
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
28 Aug 09
well... Philippines is very much traditional so maybe that's the reason why i'm really not into flings. i think she's just wasting her time because in love, the best way to picture it's beauty is when you experienced happiness after encountering pain.... dawn is just playing safe.
@suchi60 (912)
• India
27 Aug 09
They're just trying to passs time, hoping against hope that someday their love of the past will come back to them. In the meantime, why not enjoy with whatever they have? This is my personal opinion and don't think this could be anywhere near what they experience or think.
@lixiaoyan (178)
• China
27 Aug 09
Oh,the relationships among them is really complex ,in fact ,I can't understand it clearly.But I won't have two more bf at the same time .I will be togeter with my boy wholeheartedly.
