Do you respond better to discussions in the day time or at night?
By kitty42
@kitty42 (3923)
United States
August 27, 2009 8:50am CST
Hello mylotters
I just realized this yesterday when I am fresh and I respond to discussions all I have to do is read and thoughts come pouring out at night I have to read over/over can't seem to get my thoughts clear enough to give a good response,so I move on, now I know what it is I will respond only in the day time when I am fresh/sharp
How about you, do you see any difference?
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27 responses
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
27 Aug 09
Hello you two
Stop talking about me lol
So what do you mean by no, I would think you would not have a problem day or night so I get you, Thea feel free to do whatever you like my friend
As for me I will give myself x amount of hours here this way my responses will be useful to the discussions.
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@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
27 Aug 09
Hi kitty, I don't tend to come on in the mornings as things to be done, but apart from that I could be accused of being on the road to being here too much, but it's summer hols, outside is too hot and too crowded, and I can mylot in comfort with the fan on. The heat makes it difficult to sleep at night so I've been on quite late. I don't notice a change though between times as I never seem to be stuck for words. If I see a topic and my response in my mind is a definitive two word answer and I see no purpose in expounding then I won't respond as it hasn't caught my attention sufficiently, but I do that any time of day.
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
27 Aug 09
Hi thea/Tdemx
And that is how I feel thea its like when I read something I don't have to think,the thoughts are there and I am eager to respond at night its like I can't say but so much my responses or little or nothing, depends on the discussion if its something that hits home personally then get out the way nothing can stop me day or night, in general I must admit I am at a lost for words
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@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
28 Aug 09
i don't see any difference in responding to discussions, whether it is in the day or night time. if i am in the office, i can think as i am alone. but when there are people coming in who needs my attention, i should stop mylotting, for a while. at night time where i am at home, using my phone, it just minimizes my activity because of the much smaller monitor and keyboard. but that's all, i can do it anytime...
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@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
28 Aug 09
we really have to rest to get refresh. let us not abuse ourselves by taking a lot of time in front of the computer and with mylot
but everyone is becoming an addict, so why bother
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
28 Aug 09
Hi neildc
Thats great some people are good anytime of day me like now I can respond but not like I would earlier, I just feel my thoughts come faster in the day time as oppose to night, this is near and dear to me so I know what I want to say, but if I go to respond to discussions I read for the first time its like hmmm lol,I know what the problem is spend to much time here I need to relax my mind.
Thanks for sharing
@akuler (3531)
• Malaysia
27 Aug 09
Hi kitty,
I don't have any preference time to response to the discussion. As long as there is an interesting topics, I will give my response no matter what time is it. The only thing is my internet connection. It is faster at the night then at a day time. So, I can response more during night.
@akuler (3531)
• Malaysia
27 Aug 09
That's good kitty. At least you can earn more from your reply. I always try to connect my reply to my earning so I could give a good reply. But sometimes I throw rubbish just to kill the time.
I always feel fresh whenever I log-in to mylot though. So I think I always give my best on my responses.
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
27 Aug 09
Hi aKuler
I like how you said that you always feel fresh anytime you sign on, I feel that way too, maybe I am here too long, I love the feeling I get responding to my friends/fellow mylotters, and when they respond to me it makes me feel so good it shows me they read/like what I said and felt the need to respond back I love it.
I will get the hang of this maybe I should pace myself a little better like do half and half I guess only time will tell lol
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
27 Aug 09
Hello aKuler
o.k, I will respond to something that really touches my heart, other than that I read and want to respond but I am like so I remind myself to look for that post in the AM, usually works out fine, this way I am giving feedback from the heart and not just random rubbish.
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@preema723 (117)
• United States
27 Aug 09
I like responding to discussions in the morning and late at night. In the morning, it is a nice way to get my brain working and to start the day. At night, it is a great way to wind down from the day.
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@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
27 Aug 09
Hi preema723
You are good then, for me after a certain time "keep in mind" this does not happen late at night, its just my responses don't seem to make much sense anymore lol I have to tell myself you know what, time to stop and come back in the am when my brain is reeved up lol
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@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
wow i never thought of that before. i never think when was i good on responding....is it during the days or during the nights. but maybe i can say it depends on what discussion i can have or can i really give my views on that certain topic. i work at nights and if i have offs i still do mylot, but i never thought of the difference. now i need to observe myself after reading this har har har
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
26 Sep 09
Hello
I use to be a night worker myself, this is why I was surprised when I would just sit here with nothing to say, if you don't see a difference maybe this does not affect you, actually since I started this discussion things have been better, if I feel myself stuck I just log off, I never want to give half responses, some people post some serious discussions and I try to help all I can.
Thank you.
@23uday (2997)
• India
28 Aug 09
Hi friend,
I will reply all the discussions in mylot.MAximum i will giving a better responses
to a discussion.I will give a better responses to a discussion in any time.
I always giving a good responses to a discussions in mylot.
have a great day.
@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
28 Aug 09
Hey there, darlin' girl. Oh yes, I respond much better in the morning or evening. At night, when it gets closer to the time I go to bed, I struggle to respond as well as I'd like. Ack!
So far, I'm still good for a bit lol. It's only 9 pm.
Blessings,
Karen
@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
28 Aug 09
I do remember but by the time I responded it was long after the fact lol.
So yayyy! Now we know, yes? I live in Michigan...and now...it is 9:25 pm...I sound like the lady on the phone back when we could dial and get the time. She was there forever, but no more. I actually miss that sometimes lol.
xoxo
Karen
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@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
28 Aug 09
Hello my friend
I asked you this before we are on the same time zone, if I new this before I didn't remember
yes night time does not work for me, like now I feel myself slowly losing it lol, maybe if I did not come on so early this will not be a problem, who knows only time will lol
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@bingchen (1119)
• China
28 Aug 09
maybe i think that i respond better to discussion at night,because i found that i
have good mood to do it,there are some idea often appeared in my mind,so i respond it very quickly,if i respond to discussion in the day time,i always was very tired and could not pay attention to do it,so i like to respnd to discussion at night,especially quite at night,nobody can interrupt my feeling,that is important.
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
28 Aug 09
Hi binchen
I understand what you mean, and that makes alot of sense, I started later today so I will see how things work out later on, I think I spend too much time here,sometimes I get up really early so my brain is like give me a break why don't ya.
@voldrox (7191)
• India
27 Aug 09
Hi kitty
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well it doesn't really matter to me when i am replying to discussions here, and i don't really have a lot of time during the daytime, weekends are great though... so i mostly do mylot at night when i have lots of time
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see ya... and have a good day kitty!
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
27 Aug 09
Hello my wonderful friend
How they say it different strokes for different folks lol good to know what people say to this from what I am reading this is not a problem for most of you,there are a few that feel my pain
You know what my glasses effect my eyes after a certain as well, do you think that has something to do with why I can't respond? I keep forgetting about these thing like now they are fine but after a certain time no good.
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@voldrox (7191)
• India
28 Aug 09
Hi kitty
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no i don't think it's your eyes that is causing problems as such, but you better take care of it, some people take time to respond to discussions again and again and you are doing fine, even i take time sometimes, i forget while responding to other discussions... have a nice day kitty!
@sutent (1060)
• China
27 Aug 09
Hi kitty,
Very interesting discussion. I never be aware of it. I visit mylot both day time and night time, but mostly i post on mylot at night. During day time, i have to do my work and visit mylot during the little rest time. In contrast, at night, i can post on mylot without any disturbance. So like respond or raise discussions at night.
Happy mylotting!
@sutent (1060)
• China
28 Aug 09
Hi friend,
Now it's lunch time and visit mylot during the little rest time. In my opinion, it is not necessary to limit your time on mylot. you can post on mylot at which time, night or daily time, you are available. The most important thing is that we can enjoy ourselves on mylot or get what we need.
Happy mylotting!
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
29 Aug 09
Hello my friend
How are you? I am so late today grr
Yes but we must be careful with our responses we want people to take us seriously so our responses should mean something right? when I get to the point my responses are not coming from my heart but a tired head thats not good, you know what is said its only 7pm and I am tired already, I will rest early tonight wake up and finish this .
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
27 Aug 09
hello my friend
How are you today?
I guess some people don't have a problem with it, its funny cause I was posting something and it just hit me like wait a minute lol so I know what is best for me and I want people to understand what I am posting, maybe after I get use to this it will not matter to me, I am usually a night person that is why I don't get this, I love posting here no matter what so hopefully in time I will be able to respond whenever I want lol
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@seekers (393)
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28 Aug 09
I respond during night since I can go online only in the evening. Ideas comes rapidly usually at night.
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
28 Aug 09
Hello my friend
O.K so nighttime works better for you, I had a late start today so I will see tonight if this has something to do with the fact that I am here so early and after a while things just slow down mentally, we will see I am usually a night person things changed in the last year or so, I don't know we will see what happens later.
@DCLehnsherr (1037)
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28 Aug 09
Hey kitty,
I remembered reading the title of this in my inbox before I got sidetracked, but I shall do it now before I leave since I am on at night so it seems oddly appropriate lol
I tend to be calmer at night, and better able to think and form thoughts as there aren't any pressures to be doing anything else. But at the same time I noticed in the last message I typed that I was thinking one thing and my fingers were writing something completely different, so leaving things until late is probably not going to be a wise course of action for the future unless I want to go around confusing people lol. I am not all that good at reading long text either late at night since my concentration span gets even worse. On Tuesday (the last time I was on till late) I had the problem with thoughts as well which made me cringe when I woke and read the last discussion I did before leaving! I am definitely never making new discussions after 1AM ever again lol!
So yep, there is definitely a different in me depending on when I write (though I do hope it isn't too noticeable here! Maybe I shall reply again in the morning so we can see lol!)
Oh and another thing that goes, the ability to bother checking things to see if they make sense, that becomes something of a chore the earlier it gets into the morning lol
All the best and I hope your Thursday was great :)
Dranz
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
28 Aug 09
Hello my friend
Oh my wonderful friend we are going to get along just fine, you know exactly how I feel and when I read discussions at night I don't get the full affect as I would in the day, maybe I should respond tomorrow lol I laugh cause its not a bad thing I want posters to respect what I post cause I mean what I say and I say what I mean.
I know you are tired thanks for taking the time to share with me,I did get some good responses nice to see how people feel about things some see a difference others don't and that is cool I probably wouldn't either if I didn't spend so much time here lol
I should have responded better to this I keep stopping lol yes time to go.
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
29 Aug 09
Hello my wonderful friend
Ahem: I always knew by the way lol, just took a little time to say it is all lol
You are great and I am blessed to exchange thoughts with you on a daily basis, not to mention you are funny lol, I can't get over the muscles with the funny look coming at you lmaooo I really enjoy reading what you have to say honestly, I am so happy to be a part of this site, there are so many wonderful people here, its weird because I have been on the pc for a long time and never come across this many great people, do you think its because people share their feelings which leave you some what vulnerable so you tend to show the real you when posting?
This is me here there everywhere, I am finding alot of really nice people here didn't think there were any around lol, maybe I just need to get out more, you think?
@DCLehnsherr (1037)
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28 Aug 09
He Kitty,
I wasn't too tired like in a physically sense when I was doing that comment, but mentally I think my faculties were starting to shut down one by one, it is annoying when that happens since I don't always see it coming! I was glad I left though, I slept like a log which is a good side effect from mylot, actually being tired when going to bed lol!
Uhh and your response made sense as well, even if you did it over periods of time. I do that sometimes, open something up to comment and then wonder off to do something else because that something seems to lure me away lol.
Hope you had a good rest too :)
Dranz
PS: As soon as you said that you were honest in what you said on here I thought we were going to get along fine, it is good to see that you now agree lol!
@bigplay (212)
• United States
28 Aug 09
Well, i don't have time to respond in the day time, but i've always done my best responses at night, i like to do other things during the day time.
@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
28 Aug 09
In my case, I only have the morning until afternoon to mylot. I don't really have much choice on when to mylot so I try to respond to discussions or start my own as much as I can.
That gets me motivated and not worry on whether I have any inspiration or not. I just have to do it.
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
28 Aug 09
No definite time but I'm sure that during night before I go to bed. And if i'm not on stress. Many things came into my mind if I'm alone. Feeling that I talk to somebody that is why I was happy to write and post.
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
29 Aug 09
Hello mods196621
I gotcha, mylot is such a wonderful place I just want my fellow posters to like what I say and want to hear it, if I am not comfortable with my responses then I know something is not right so I ned to stop, you know what when I am done here on mylot I sleep so good, I find myself really tired after mylotting one of my friends pointed that out to me and its really true.