For the Love Of Hermione Or For The Love Of Emma
By Brian
@wolfie34 (26771)
United Kingdom
August 27, 2009 12:32pm CST
It has often occured to me how famous people are able to really know if their partners are with them for true love for the fame and most certainly the money.
How do you distinguish one from the other? How do they know where true love is, hidden deep down is a yearning for what they have rather than who they are,
In the case of Hermione played superbly by Emma Watson, now undoubtedly she is absolutely stunning, beautiful and could easily be mistaken for a princess and for those Harry Potter fans amongst us, and I know there are many, some maybe embedded in the closet remember fondly in the 4th film, the film that I cannot name LOL, why do I have trouble in remembering the name of the 4th film when I remember the others so well, hang on (Wolfie goes to look at his Harry Potter dvd collection) Goblet of Fire, where Hermione on the night of the Triwizards Ball emerges to meet Victor Krum, the beauty, the undeniable feminine beauty that she beholds.
But in real life do people admire and fall for her beauty as Hermione or do they fall for the actress Emma herself
Now I wonder if her boyfriend ever called her Hermione by mistake instead of Emma do you think that would flatter or annoy her?
And do you think that someone would love her for being Emma or for being Hermione?
How do you prove to someone famous that you truly love them for what they are rather than who they are and the stardom they represent?
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
27 Aug 09
Perhaps that's why famous people often fall for other famous people. Less chance of an ulterior motive because the other person is dealing with the exact same lifestyle and so on. But if Emma fell for the guy at the carwash, for example, how would she know? You listen to your head as much as your heart and if something feels wrong you use your judgement. And you aren't always going to be right either, since people can be very good at acting like something they are not. How would I prove it to somebody? Well, you just send Paul McCartney over here and I will do my best to prove it by just being myself. :-)
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
27 Aug 09
lol yeah until somebody younger and prettier comes along. But I suppose that happens with us muggles too.
@derek_a (10874)
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28 Aug 09
I think the bottom-line answer to this is that you cannot prove anything to anybody in love. It is a leap of faith, and sometimes it is so strong, that we cannot do anything else but take the leap of faith or we will spend our days in misery yearning for that person we are so attracted to.
If you are famous and wealthy, it is a leap of faith that will either work out or not, but when you are not famous, you are still dealing with the fickle nature of human beings. We can't really guarantee that our own feelings of love for another will last, so how can we know that another's feelings will last. One thing that is true is that life is a game where we take risks. Therefore here's a question... if we do not play the game, then what will happen to our game? 
- Derek.
- Derek. @wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
29 Aug 09
I think the answer to your question would be as in chess you'd have a stalemate! So in order to be able to move on risks are required, as that in the Game Of Life, there are many treasures to be found in life if you seek hard enough rather than give up, and there are many pitfalls too. But we need to experience the pitfalls to be able to learn and move forward, rather than trying to avoid them and thus moving no further on and getting nowhere. I think love itself is a fickle thing, it's also for me a very 'mysterious' and 'rare' thing which I tackle with kidgloves and to me love is not the ultimate prize in life because even with love as the prize it's still fallible.
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@derek_a (10874)
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29 Aug 09
I agree, love (romantic) is not the ultimate prize. It tends to be transient. But what of that unconditional love, that a mother has for a child? I don't think that is the ultimate prize either, because many of us spend so much time trying to break away and get our independence. The ultimate prize in life perhaps is the realization of life as self, and self as life. One as all, and all as one, as they say in Zen circles. Nothing that can be analysed or explained. Pure experience of enlightenment. But then, if we try and hold on to that pure experience, we lose it for certain. There perhaps, is the "mysterious" and "rare" thing you refer to and that we all aspire to discover. There is always something we are needing to be looking for. And the mystery lies in the journey, not the destination. - Derek
- Derek
@ibuemma (2953)
• United States
27 Aug 09
hahaha, that's why I never have any intention to get a movie star as a husband ( yea, right! ).
But I think she'll understand if one time her BF/spouse call her Hermione. Maybe she would be mad if the boy call another girl name that he cheated with...hahaha...Have a good day Wolfie !
@MLEML88 (21)
• China
28 Aug 09
yes,this's a good discussion!
It's true!in real life,we can become the fans of some actress or actors because of their playing some role in Movies or TV series which attracts us a lot deeply.If she or he is a new ,initially not well-known ,and usually what's up to whether we like them or not is the first impression they give us in the show.I am such a person,and i will like them ,no matter what are the characteristic of them in your real life.LOL,Maybe you will say i am not a sane guy! I don't care~
