One Big Happy Family

skysuccess, that's a very touchy story, and may this couple be blessed with a forever love.. what you said, is totally right, that the unconditional love between Racheal and Jay is something we should taken as an example.. they have done it for their children, and look at all the big smiles on their face, isn't them showing the value of the big celebration.. I remembered sharing this with my friends, that I will not want a wedding ceremony till the 10th anniversary of my marriage, as I wanted everyone to actually celebrate the happiness of me being able to find someone that really walk the path with me, rather than having a big big celebration, however later found out the marriage is not working good.. Nowadays, people take love for granted, and never really able to commit themselves in a relationship, and when it comes to marriage, not many wanted to work it out, and instead find the easiest way to just say divorce. I do pity those that been in a relationship for some time, however after a big wedding, you hear from others that they divorce.. I wish all the loving couple in MyLot, has a happy relationship, and forever love..

i think you have it backwards. According to God's Word, you need to get married before you think of having kids. it makes for a much more stable marriage.

First of all there is no way I am going to have 10 children. Second of all why wait. If someone doesn't think a child is a life long commitment I don't know what is. I have three children and if my husband left today and we divorced we would still be connected forever.

That is definitely unconventional...I definitely want to be married before I have children...but as long as that family is happy and healthy, it's their lives. I can't even imagine having 10 children, I think I would go mad! LOL. But that was a very heartwarming story and her wedding dress looked amazing.

Me and my partner will not be getting married for another few years and not until after we have had our third child, i dont see it as any big issue or problem. we love one another we are happy we dont have a problem with how our lives are going or have panned out i find any problems are usually those of other people and i do not have the time nor energy to worry about how they feel about MY relationship my children live in a stable loving family enviroment which is more than can be said for a lot of children that to me is the most important thing ever.

I came from nine member of the family including our parents and my six siblings,we came from a big family but i dont see anything that will bother us.Something like a big trouble for our parents. One big happy FAMILY is a good thing isnt it?thnx to this discussion.

Dear skysuccess, Thanks for this very interesting story of 'unconditional love'. All their children are so adorable...make me want to cuddle each and everyone of them. I showed my son the picture of this big happy family... For myself, I have 5 elder brothers and 2 elder sisters..and I am the youngest. In total my mum has 18 grandchildren and 4 great grandchildren. During Chinese New Year it will be like~ 'the more the merrier'...lol All the best and do keep in touch :)