What is your stand??
By jamzy_amor86
@jamzy_amor86 (182)
Philippines
August 27, 2009 4:46pm CST
I have a cousin who is a girl and who is currently 17years old. She have this so-called "bestfriend" who would always invite her to go to parties and go out with friends. There was a day wherein her parents and her sibling went to an out of town, so she was alone at home and her mother told her "bestfriend" just to sleep at their home with her daughter. My daughter and her "bestfriend" have been friends since they entered high school (they are now graduating students). Along, we have thought that her "bestfriend" is innocent, honest and a real good influence to my cousin. That night, the "bestfriend" brought her bf/gf at my cousin's house and she let that bf/gf slept there (she even introduced the bf/gf as her cousin). But to their surprise, the "bestfriend" and the bf/gf were caught hugging and kissing and doing some stuffs. That was the only time that we knew that the "bestfriend" is having a lesbian relationship which caused her sudden thinness, always tired and she already had bigger boobies. My cousin's mom was very mad because of what happened at their house and that my cousin have consented with the relationship and the act. She even told my cousin not make friends with the "bestfriend" anymore.
So what about you mylotters, if you were my cousin's mom, will you also be mad? What is your stand about a girl to girl relationship or a boy to boy relationship?
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6 responses
@lologirl2021 (5542)
• United States
27 Aug 09
Well i of course don't think it is the right way to live life and i grew up in a house were my parents taught me the correct way to live my life and who i should date and who i shouldn't date. Now that I'm older they still tell me the same thing and the guy i like now well my mom doesn't think he is the best for me still.
I also believe if your a girl and like a girl maybe you were born like that but then i see lesbians and they have a baby so then i think well they weren't born to just like girls i see, so i guess i never really understood the entire thing, but then its life there are things you don't always understand about everything. If a girl likes a girl maybe she things its only normal and the say for guys.
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@jamzy_amor86 (182)
• Philippines
3 Sep 09
Maybe there are just some things in ones life we cannot fully understand unless we are in that situation.
@stephwrites (275)
• United States
27 Aug 09
jamzy, I personally would not like to hear that my son or daughter was gay/lesbian. but I would love them no matter what they choose. My oldest son was in jail at one time and, although I didn't like what he did to put him there, I still loved him and made sure he knew that I would be there for him to talk or whatever he needed.
this is definitely not a good way to find out that the cousin was gay but unfortunately, it is something parents have had to deal with for a long time. I will pray for you and your family.
@jamzy_amor86 (182)
• Philippines
3 Sep 09
Thank you for praying for me & my family. You can guarantee that I would do the same with you and your family.
I appreciate you alot since you love your children unconditionally which I think is the nature of a mother.
@dreamr802 (985)
• United States
27 Aug 09
Well obviously I'd be upset that my kid was a lesbian but that wouldn't make me stop loving them. I have several gay friends so that's nothing new to me. But I can understand why her mom is upset that it happened under her roof. I don't know what the best solution is but I don't think your cousin will stop seeing her friend just because her mom said she had to...
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@taztheone (1721)
• India
27 Aug 09
No one would like to hear that their loved ones are Les/gay. However being Les/Gay is something which we cant change, I think we should let them choose what they wish for.
@cocoprincess31 (39)
• United States
28 Aug 09
Well, I was raised the same way allot of other people were raised, man and woman belong together, and so forth. Now a days...it has changed. Its more widley accepted in society, and there are more individuals that are "experimenting". I personally LOVE MEN, but at the same time, see how times they are a changing. The mother should really have a sit down talk with her child, and get to the root of the issue (if there is one). Communication is the key, and although the "bestfriend" may have exposed your cousin to this sort of lifestyle your cousin still has a mind of her own, and if this is not something she wants then she needs to be strong and stand up to her friend, that is apart of life and growing up. In addition her bf might not be that great of a friend afterall.
@cherrc (661)
• Philippines
28 Aug 09
it is a free will. I personally cannot condemn such thing. it would be hypocrisy on my part coz i also have gay friends. but there's one thing that i didn't like in that situation. they're not supposed to do it in parents' home, be it urs or other's parents. they should have known their limitations.:)
