Would you marry a woman much older than you?

@suchi60 (912)
India
August 28, 2009 8:52am CST
I have read a lot of reports of young men marrying much older women. Is this becaus eof their status or is it because of love? I believe that most of these cases has to do with money and status. Just like how young women prefer older men, I guess young men who love and marry older women do so for money and fame. Your thoughts?
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8 responses
• Philippines
28 Aug 09
it depends, but not as old as 40 to 60+ that's crazy for me. although there was a television show that aired about an old woman and a young man ina village is actually married, and yet most people thought of them as Mother and a Son.but i do believe that some out there simply married women for just plain money
@suchi60 (912)
• India
30 Aug 09
Money talks, doesn;t it? If you were asked to marry a baroness who was 65, would you refuse? Think of all the possibilities. I wouldn't if I were you.
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• Philippines
30 Aug 09
I wont..still
@wmraul (2552)
• Bucharest, Romania
28 Aug 09
Yes, sure. Here are my conditions for this marriage: - she must have over 90 years old; - she must have NO relative to challenge the heritage; - she must suffer from at l;east 3 lethal diseases, all in terminal phases; - must have at least one million dollars in bank account and no charges, debts, mortages or similar; - she must own at least two homes on different continents; - until she die, we will live in separate rooms: she in a bedroom, me in anotherone placed on a house on different continent. Above rules are not negociable. I reserve the right to add new ones if situation require.
@suchi60 (912)
• India
28 Aug 09
Why not stay in separate houses instead of separate bedrooms? I can hardly wait to read your other terms, if any. Thanks for the post.
@wmraul (2552)
• Bucharest, Romania
28 Aug 09
:-) Re-read .. she must stay in a bedroom, me in anotherone PLACED ON A HOUSE ON A DIFFERENT CONTINENT. :-))))) As about more rules .. make me an offer :-P
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
28 Aug 09
well it's either money or more experance with life. but to me if someone is old snough to be my mom there is no way at all.
@suchi60 (912)
• India
28 Aug 09
Would you consider someone a little younger than your mother and has a wealth of fortune to go along with it as incentive? Quite a complicated situation, but I believe most guys would go for it. Personal preferences ofcourse! Thanks for the post.
@jugsjugs (12967)
28 Aug 09
When it comes to love i do not think that age should even come into it at all.as long as they are happy why should it bother anyone else.I have a friend that is in her 30s and her boyfriend is in his60s and they have been together for at least 4 years and they are deeply in love.They have no money they have their love which is better than anything and we all know money do not buy love.
@suchi60 (912)
• India
28 Aug 09
No wonder they say, 'love is blind.' Kuddos to the friend for finding a manold enough to be her father. Perhaps the generation gap does have a certain zing. Thanks for the post.
@preethaanju (3000)
• India
28 Aug 09
I m prepared to marry a women with 3-4 years difference, on the higher side that is i fall in love with her.. there is no harm.. but too much diference will make me look a son mother relationship as women skin tend to age faster.
@suchi60 (912)
• India
28 Aug 09
And what if she has the kind of money to buy you younger and attractive women? Thanks for the post.
@jujuby (62)
• India
31 Aug 09
We cannot blindly tell that every cases are for money and fame.This may differ according to their situation.So one must not judge by seeing one side of the coin,for every coins have two sides.Because I know different cases of this sort have ended up only for love ...love and not for any thing else.
@tintukm (1102)
• India
28 Aug 09
Marriages are always made in heaven ,if the two people never are concerned of their ages then it's not a problem.During living the life he -the husband, would be on the verge of criticism when the wife grows older ,being already a little older than the husband this shows a change in their view at he wife being as old as him. life will become drastic for anyone of the two mostly the women ,I would prefer love take care of marriages and women when the age is not a factor.
• India
28 Aug 09
well i think every one have a heart its cant be compare with age height or some other physical things well your thinking will be match to live with her some one so don't compare with age .....