How you really love your parents?
By mobhomeir
@mobhomeir (7558)
Philippines
August 30, 2009 12:04am CST
Hello guys, I have here a question that I am so sure most us children would surely say YES I DO, INDEED!!!!!!!!!!!
But, I was just wondering why there are people or even countries' culture that their parents would refused to be taken care of by their children when the parents would be get old, and hardly couldn't move themselves. Why some parents of those some countries think that taking care of their parents would not be the responsibilities of their children?
For the part of the children; WHEN would be the best and appropriate time to show how we love our parents? WOULD you permit to let those people at the home-of-the-aged and caregivers to take good care of your old parents?
WOULD this be the BEST moment (at their Prime age), for us children to show how we really love and care for our old parents?
Or are your old parents being taking-care-of by somebody else?
what's your opinion about this fellows?
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4 responses
@bingchen (1119)
• China
3 Sep 09
everybody have his different way to express love to his owned parents,including me,i love them,although i have few time to communicate with them and few time to see them and call them,but i found that they become more older than before, they still worried about me and my little sister,so i hope to reduce their burden,i begin to learn something and technic,this can make me earn enough money to heal my little sister's illness and let her recover,i hope that i can replace my father's position and let my home live better,and don't let them suffur for my little sister.this is my willing.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
4 Sep 09
I appreciate your concern about your little sister...this proves that you really love her...thanks for responding...
@finidinwa (497)
• United States
2 Sep 09
This question sounded funny to me at first but on second thought i discorvered it is not what i thou as for me i love my parents very well
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
4 Sep 09
Yes. You can find a friend but you can't find a family....we must love our parents to point that we would not throw and leave them in home of the elders but instead we must see to it that we are the one or any of our siblings would take care on them when they would already old and can't hardly carry themselves...thanks for responding.....
@cloud_kicker_32 (4635)
• United States
30 Aug 09
Yes i really love my parents,my mom has always treated me horrible though,and my sister so much it has always hurt me emotionally,mentally and physically.She has even brought her hate for me onto my son thats 7 and it ticks me off even more,now my dad..we may have a bad history when i was younger but not since i was 18 we have been best friends,and i would do anything for and yes id be more than happy to care for him till he passed..my sister would most likely take care of my mom..shes 33 and still lives with her,and with my niece as well..i love my mom but she likes to hurt me too much so theres no way i could live with her again..but id help her out if she needed me to do things.
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
31 Aug 09
I understand what you mean my friend because being a human being it would be normal that there's mother that don't want really some of their children. But I like you because you are ready to help still your mother when she would have problem that you think you could help....thanks for that attitude..I appreciate it...
@colydf (913)
• China
30 Aug 09
I really love my parents very much, although I know that they love me much more than I love them. I think it is our responsibility to take care of our parents after they get old. Because they give so much to us and love us so deeply. Have a nice day!
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
31 Aug 09
That's what I would like to happen to all of the children to their parents. What E wouldn't like is this "Home of the Aged" where some of the children leave their parents their. Letting somebody else to take care of their old parents...it would be so disgusting for us who really love to care our old parents...
