Getting over a broken heart...?
By brandoppsx
@brandoppsx (93)
United States
August 30, 2009 8:58pm CST
So...I'm curious as to how you guys do it because I'm having major issues...
Just a little over a year ago, I broke up with my fiance of two years...We had lots of problems, she was way over controlling and I had finally lost it and broke things off...
Now, I regret it. I regret it deeply....
9 Months after we were broken up, she got married...MARRIED....
My heart aches, I think about her all the time...I can't move on because I am so busy thinking about all of the "what ifs" and the "could have dones" and it's taking over. I go back and forth about it all the time, even though she still treats me like crap I still wish that things would have worked out with us...
How do you guys get over past relationships? Especially ones that meant a lot to you...? How can you move on if you are so wrapped up in the past?
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@SetoKun (286)
• Philippines
1 Sep 09
Oh man.. we are in the same boat.. When my gf for 5 years broke up with me, I thought I would die.. I did all the crazy stuffs to ruin my life.. Then my parents sent me to singapore thinking that I can move on.. Well, I pretty much moved on when it comes to my way of thinking.. I became mature and I changed myself to be a better person. I stayed there for two years. Now that I just got back in our country, I realized that I have not totally moved on.. I still love her and I actually tried to win her back but she don't believe that I've changed and she's taken.. Well, I guess what I'm trying to point out is that, moving on is a matter of acceptance and choice. I'm happy that I'm over with all the crazy stuffs and fully accepted that she's happy without me in her life. Although it still hurts and I still love her, what's important is that I have accepted that she's no longer mine and her happiness is all that matters. In time, I know that I'll be as happy as her with someone else also.
