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Yes, I did and I also hate arguments. Like what you've mentioned, arguments make us lose the person and worsen the relation between people that are having argument. I will try to avoid arguments as much as possible and if I encounter arguments, what I did usually I will admit defeat. But if situation demands, I will stand up for my right and asked for a correction.

Hi madu, I too hate confrontational arguments. Sometimes, when you think about it, it can be quite petty. I always think that if you agree with that person, the argument will just stop. So it depends on whether you value your relationship or you want to win. Because sometimes when you win you lose too.

Of course these things are going to happen. But we can call them something else, disagreements. There really is not any need for arguing. First of all, when you are a friend, a family member, or significant other to the person that you have a disagreement with then they and you should hear each other out on whatever you disagree on. Instead of arguing, discuss the each others point of views and try to come to a compromise. That of course would only be possible in a perfect life!!! Secondly, if the person that you are "arguing" with is not someone that is in your daily life then honestly it does not really matter what they think, does it? Unless it is a proven fact and you can show someone that fact then everything else is just an opinion. And as long as you believe you opinion and are o.k. with it then that's all that should really matter. One last thing, if you want to fix a relationship that was weakened because of an argument just be sorry and tell them that you are. And if the other person is the one at fault accept their apology and really accept it. God forgives us for anything as long as we are truly sorry and so should we.