If your best friend had a girlfriend
By Della_yue
@Della_yue (15)
China
August 30, 2009 11:07pm CST
Yesterday my best friend told me that he has a girlfriend. I do not know why i feel very sad.
I liked him when we were in the same senior high school,but at that time we had heavy pressure of the college entrance examination so i did not tell him what i feel about him. We were close friends during that period. Unfortunately he did not do as well as he expected in the exam and since then we keep less contact with each other. But as a habit, we send massages to say good night everday. However yesterday he told that we should stop this kind of habit.
I can totally understand him and i thought we could just be friends since we entered different universities.But i had a sleepless night when i heard of this.What's wrong with me? Why i am so upset?
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4 responses
@wangjihong350 (887)
• China
31 Aug 09
Do not upset the children, young friends of the time is not fixed. Because you are not mature enough, I hope you can put energy used in the study. Girl's charm is the self-esteem. He ignores you, is his fault. Thereafter, he will regret it. Adults love is not plain sailing. So, you do not worry. Do not depressed. You work, look for a boyfriend. I wish you happy.
@Della_yue (15)
• China
31 Aug 09
Thank you for your soft words.I believe i can get over and move on.There are many more important things waiting to be put energy in.Wish my luck~
@gmode8 (60)
• United States
1 Sep 09
You are upset because now you have a void in your life. He has a new girlfriend who he is messaging and talking to often but he left a hole in your life and you have no one to fill it yet. But you will. You are experiencing withdrawal symptoms. Try to get involved in MyYearbook or Facebook etc to fill the void. I know how you feel. I have been in this situation before. It happens to all of us.
@Della_yue (15)
• China
1 Sep 09
You are right,i should find something to fill the void. Thank you for your suggestion.
I think there maybe another reason, maybe i am a little jealous of him.
@dianmelydia (2269)
• Indonesia
31 Aug 09
Here i'm talking from women's perspective. I have a friend who is my best friend when we both were single. Last year i got my boyfriend and my best friend also got her boyfriend. Since then we both seldom met each other. Within a year, we only met several times, i think less than 10 times. I don't want to negatively thinking about my friendship with her. Human life is dynamically changing through the time goes by. My best friend got married several months ago. I think that was my last time i saw her. Due to my working schedule, i have no much time for socializing with my old friends now. But i always keep in contact with them my sending them short message by mobile phone, and sometimes i call them by phone. I don't think i will feel regret with this condition. For me, friend is forever friend. No one can changes it and a friendship can't be refused by the time. But life is a dynamic thing. Nothing will still in a fixed condition. So, just follow this rule. This is natural rule so no need to change it. Good luck and have a nice day. Happy mylotting.
@Della_yue (15)
• China
31 Aug 09
I know this natural rule,but i still feel sorry about that.I think i will get used to it.Thank you for your support.
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
31 Aug 09
The love hidden is hurts, friend. Tell what being your felt about he. If you not tell, forever he not know about your felt
@Della_yue (15)
• China
31 Aug 09
I guess it is too late now. But we can still be friends. Some of my friends told me that if he did not feel the same feeling about me, we might not be friends any more. And i had a sense of inferiority when i dreamt of being his girlfriend. He was the president of our student union, he is outstanding!
