And I thought she was my friend!
By suesan35
@suesan35 (478)
Sri Lanka
August 31, 2009 4:29am CST
What would you do if you get to know that someone you thought was your friend has been spreading false rumours about you? It really happened to me once. She was a much younger girl whom I befriended and helped in spite of others telling me to be careful in associating with her. But I didn't believe them and it came to a stage that I was even afraid to stay in the same room with her alone. She tried to put all my friends against me and even my peers. But luckily they knew me better. Even now, when I think of it I shudder and thats the only person in my life that I steer clear of cos' I feel she's not quite normal. Has anyone else had such an experience?
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
31 Aug 09
iT'S VERY SAD WHEN SOMONE DOES THIS TO U. I guess mot people have been disappointed in people we thought were our friends. There are alot of loonies running around, she sounds like one of them.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
1 Sep 09
Sounds to me as if she has big problems. I think u are alot better off w/out her. She needs some help.
@suesan35 (478)
• Sri Lanka
1 Sep 09
You said it Antiquelady. Although I didn't want to come out with it she definitely needed help and treatment. But to tell you frankly, I was even scared to suggest it in case she came after me cos' later on she started talking about taking revange from anyone who crossed her although at that time I didn't know she meant me. Up to now, I really don't know why she built up such hatred towards me co's all I did was befriend her and help her.
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@koalapenguin (2707)
• Philippines
31 Aug 09
Lucky for me, i have not encountered such person. The only thing to do is to avoid that person completely *if you can't bear to see her again*. But if you are a kind person, you can help her rebuild your relationship with her and help her be a normal kind of person *you said that she was not normal*. Moreover, pray for patience and understanding for your friend. It might have been very hurtful but if you share your problems to Him, He wil surely help you. 
God bless.
God bless.@suesan35 (478)
• Sri Lanka
1 Sep 09
Thanks koalapenguin. This happened sometime back and I don't see her now. Under normal circumstances I would definitely have forgiven any person whom I thought was doing things against me if I thought he or she could be rehabilitated. But like I said, there's something "not quite right" with this girl. When I say she was not normal I mean she was kind of scary weird. Since she was living with me in the same apartment (I took her in because she used to complain and cry about the people she was living with) I even feared for my life; she used to look at me with such hate clenching her teeth etc. that I even hid the knives in the kitchen. So that's why I don't want her in my life, ever, sad as it may be.
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@koalapenguin (2707)
• Philippines
1 Sep 09
It's sad, really.
But i hope you could get her to a mental institution. I think your the only one person who can do this to her now that she's away from her family. That was way too scary!
I can even imagine the look in her eyes and the way she clenched her teeth. It's good that you have hidden the kitchen utensils. 
But i hope you could get her to a mental institution. I think your the only one person who can do this to her now that she's away from her family. That was way too scary! I can even imagine the look in her eyes and the way she clenched her teeth. It's good that you have hidden the kitchen utensils. 