Women wooing men, a behavior indicating boldness or self-respect?
By neulichuang
@neulichuang (85)
China
August 31, 2009 8:40am CST
After seeing all your good friends putting on their wedding dresses and becoming happy brides, and feeling parents' heartfelt expectation about your own marriage, you cannot stop wondering: where is my other half. We cannot deny that we're in an era that there are too many left-along-girls. The girls who are single but with god background and appearance are the "leftest".
Say your love aloud! You have no idea which comes first, tomorrow or accidents.
It's not embarrassing at all to woo a guy that a girl's interested in. But how to win a man's heart is really tactic. If you were a girl, would you woo someone you like? If you were a guy, what's your opinion about "woman wooing a man"? Would you expect girls to be active or passive?
2 responses
@Sanziana (88)
• Romania
31 Aug 09
Hi neulichuang, interesting topic. Well, it didn't happen to me to woo a man not because I'm too shy or something, just because when I fell in love with somebody I had the luck to be immediately noticed by that person. Why? I don't know, maybe it was telepathy...I'm only joking now. Usually, when I had a crush on somebody, that somebody reacted very positive, let's say.
But, if somehow (this is just an example, I'm married, I'm not looking for other macho :)) )I would be attracted to a man and he wouldn't spotted me, to be honest, yes I would try to woo him a little bit, not too more because I don't like to be pushy. Instead of being ridicule I prefer to let go somebody if he's not interested, love has to come naturally, not by means who involve in one way or another, force. This is the most bad aspect, I guess you also need to know when it's time to go and mind your own bussiness. Best wishes!
