love or getting married
By panipuri
@panipuri (98)
India
September 1, 2009 12:06am CST
Does your heart sink as you look around at everyone you know falling in love or getting married and having families, and you are embarrassed to admit that you are starting to lose hope that you'll ever have any of that happen to you?
5 responses
@masteronline (834)
• Indonesia
1 Sep 09
In stressful situation in our heart, we should be more patient. Trying to sharing with the families of our inner pressure. Trying to discuss with our close friend. Do not let us lose hope
@MistyWood (349)
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1 Sep 09
This is like the poem The Victor by C.W. Longenecker http://tinyurl.com/ko6daz It is a poem about self motivation... If you think you are lost... you are! If you think you will loose... you will!
Your performance and path in life is determined by your own selfwill - loose this and well... as the poem says "Sucess begins with a fellow's will, it's all in the state of the mind!"
@MistyWood (349)
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1 Sep 09
This is like the poem The Victor by C.W. Longenecker http://tinyurl.com/ko6daz It is a poem about self motivation... If you think you are lost... you are! If you think you will loose... you will!
Your performance and path in life is determined by your own self-will - loose this and well... as the poem says "Success begins with a fellow's will, it's all in the state of the mind!"
@castravete (10)
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1 Sep 09
why make a family when u have your old one ? getting married is a big mistake ... just stay single and you will be happy ...
@patzel88 (3310)
• Philippines
1 Sep 09
i am a married person but i do agree with you as i have experience many things to my family as i realize that it is not the answer to our problem to get married for we have a lot thing to be set aside just to make sure that our family is in good relation. As i have seen and witness to my parents and some old couples that they built a family and given a kids, whether it is small or big but time will come it will live alone because their kids have also their own life to manage. It is a life cycle to as to get ready for any circumstances that might happen when we get old for we could not get what we want.
@Loverbear (4918)
• United States
1 Sep 09
I was married twice and both were total nightmares! I am so happy with the man in my life and his being across the street and two doors up from me. I can run my life the way I want to and he can run his the same way. Neither of us boss each other, and we don't have reasons to nag each other. In fact I got home from school tonight to find a wonderful surprise on the pillow on my bed. He bought me a beautiful pair of earrings as a surprise. I wouldn't mess up the life I have with getting married. I am not embarrassed about not having someone to marry or having families. It is a lot of peer and family pressure that makes people rush into marriage. It is so much better to take your time and find a great fit in a mate rather than falling for the "biological clock ticking" push. My friend married a man that cheated on his wife, and within 6 months of marrying her he was cheating again...I seem to be the sounding block for those women and men that rushed into marriage and are not happy with the results of the rush. So, why be embarrassed or lose hope when you have a lot of time to find a great mate?
