Is it okay to cheat on your girlfriend if she never finds out?

In no way is it cool to cheat, not only because it is morally wrong, but because sooner or later, your girlfriend will find out, and not necessarily in the way she wants to find out (think "Cheaters"). The whole "You only live once" jazz isn't going to cut it by any means. Please don't put yourself or her through something that you don't have to go through.

How would you feel if she did that to you? Seriously, I don't think it's okay at all. A relationship is supposed to be based on trust, and cheating on someone is so untrustworthy. I threw my husband out and divorced him for cheating on me, though, so you may want more opinions than just mine.

No definitely not, I think what tou and more people should do is reverse role yourself and think how you would feel if it was done to you..I have seen in the past that the people who do cheat are usually the ones that scream the loudest when it is done to them...what is good enough for the goose is good enough for the gander, remember that..

Yes we only live ones, but would you like for you partner to cheat on you? I would not like for my husband to cheat on me and I don’t think I would ever cheat on him since he is really special to me and even if he was not that specially I rather end the relationship than cheat.

It's true, you only live once, but NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. I don't think it's fair to you or her! Why be with someone that holds you back? Obviously you have different thoughts in mind. Let her go, let her be happy, because you will be. RIGHT? I always say, "just because you're happy and it's all peaches and cream, doesn't mean you were meant to be". Who says you wouldn't be better friends? Why would one have to hurt another just to get pleasure for themselves? HMMMM, AT LEAST CONSIDER THE OTHER PERSON. You'll be losing out on more than just your life, but you'll be taking their time in life, away too.

If she does find out some day and dumps you will you be sorry? Do you care if you hurt her or not? Wait..I don't have to ask this question. Of course you don't care! Want to know how I know? Because you took the chance. It is not ok. It is a very selfish thing to do and if she finds out could hurt her very very deeply. I hope she never finds out and if she does not fullfill you just break up and find someone who does.

I guess that depends on your views. I mean if you don't mind that she cheats on you, then sure go ahead. But, if you don't want her cheating on you, then no it is not okay. See the choice is still yours.