how do you know love is coming?

China
September 2, 2009 12:11am CST
how do you know love is coming? what do you feel like when you fall in love with somebody? i havn't been in love, but i think love is something beautiful and fantistic. it is just something with magician. it make people happy and sad ,and it always change the person who is in love. one of my friend said , when you are fall in love , the heart is just full of the person , and when the love is gone , suddenly ,the heart become empty ...... what is exactly the feeling of love like?
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gmode8
@gmode8 (60)
• United States
2 Sep 09
Being in love to me is feeling completely comfortable with the other person. You are at ease with them, you love their touch and everything about them. It is so easily confused with lust. The symptoms are much the same. But when you are in a relationship and your feelings change from wanting them sexually to predominately wanting just to be with them then something has changed. Of course the needing to be with them sexually does not change... it just seems to take a back burner to other feelings. You also find yourself caring about what happens to the other person and wanting to be with them all the time. Of course there are different depths of being in love too. My late husband was the love of my life..like no other. We instantly bonded like we had always known each other. But there was another man in my life that I deeply loved before him... but not as deeply. We were not as compatible. Love is a hard thing to know. I wish you luck in finding it. Just remember the person you love should uplift you and not bring you down. Real love does not hurt!!