do you tend to sugar coat a sensitive topic before you tell a girl?
By tuliorowena
@tuliorowena (350)
Philippines
September 2, 2009 9:54pm CST
Do you tend to sugar coat a sensitive topic before you tell a sensitive topic to your girlfriend or wife?
For example, your girlfriend or wife is getting fatter. And it doesn't look nice anymore. How will you tell her? We all know that woman are sensitive and easily got discouraged. How will you make her loose weight without getting her feelings hurt? Will you be sugar coating your opinion or tell her straight to face or will you say about unhealthy stuff to her gaining weight situation?
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4 responses
@taogang (103)
• China
3 Sep 09
No,I never tend to a sugar coat for a sensitive topic to my wife,Because my wife is not so sensitive and not so easy to get discouraged(do not like the situation you describe to women),We talk to each other freely ,So there is No need to tell a lie upon a sensitive topic,She will accept every good advice I give to her.And by the way Not every woman want to lose weight ,My wife is a person who make every attempt to gain weight,haha ...Because she is so slender
@tuliorowena (350)
• Philippines
3 Sep 09
Wow! your wife is lucky to have a slim gene! And you are lucky to have a good communication with her. Well i'd say most of the woman are too sensitive with weight topics. Thank you!
@shibham (16977)
• India
3 Sep 09
say the truth, whatever the results may be.
i maintain a least relation with girls. so when i talk to girl i never need to sugar coat my speech bcoz i am a straight going person. they always know who is flattering them. and i believe that flatterer cant stay for a long time beside a girl even they like flattering.hahaha....
@prashanthalva (2272)
• India
3 Sep 09
You Can Never Comment On A Girl You Know Well .. You Can Never Say On Her Face 'You Are Fat' .. You Can Politely Say 'You Are Pleasantly Plump'.. Don't Say Only Women Are Sensitive Even Men Are, But they Know How To Take A Comment ..
@koalapenguin (2707)
• Philippines
3 Sep 09
The sugar-coat thing will work if you delivered it the right way. 
We know that women loves to be praised and would never want to hear negative stuff about them. So the best thing to do is praise her first then tell her what you really want to say. Like, "I love the way your hips turn me on, but i would want to see you in a much lighter weight." or something like that. 
We know that women loves to be praised and would never want to hear negative stuff about them. So the best thing to do is praise her first then tell her what you really want to say. Like, "I love the way your hips turn me on, but i would want to see you in a much lighter weight." or something like that. 