How to make your spouse to be a good listener?

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My question is simple how to be a good listener? All this time I have tried hard to be a good listener but when my turn to be listened to my spouse can't do the same. I mean being a good listener means the same right to be listen and appreciate, right? But, in the situation when you are not being heard then it falls to bad communication. So, how to arise the awareness of being a good listener?