Do you fret over your misfortune that you are not what you could have been ?

I rely on God and my own skill.My duty is to utilise whatever skill I have, keep looking for opportunities and be content that I would get whatever God wants me to get. I have no complaints whatsoever and I thank God for all that I have.It is my duty to make efforts and whatever is the outcome is the fortune God has decided to give me.

Hi Rajib, I no longer fret over what might have been, life is too short for such things. I still have a few things that I want to do and I will have to depend on my own skill if I am to suceed. Luck and fortune may sometimes play a part but most of us create our future by our actions today. Blessings.

My luck is what I deserve. I feel,whatever 'misfortune' I have undergone, is but the consequences of my weak decisions. I am responsible for all the bad things in my life. And the bad things some times do amazing things! They help us realise our mistakes. More soon..

Dear Rajib Great, you said the right expectation are always beyond imagination. I agree with you. But still I prefer that skill and sincerity are required but above all fortune required to ignition to flourish. This is my believe. Have a nice day Raju

Hi krajibg, when the desire remains desire, there is pain and cursing the fortune. Own skills are good but not always fetching. :( Wallowing in self pity is what is bad. Fine - there is a setback, let me not waste rest of the life dwelling only on this. That is what should be the attitude. Eventually - hardly anybody will miss their goals if they keep such attitudes. And goals keep changing as well. So feeling bad about failure earlier on should not deter people from continuing to work hard.

Hello my friend Thanks for sharing another wonderful post with us As for me I consider myself fortunate I have been blessed in more ways than one, sure I would love to have more, the beautiful home,fine car and all the rest of the material things that alot of people take for granted, but I have something money can't buy so in a sense I may be more wealthy than they would ever be, for that my friend I am truly fortunate there are so many misguided people who don't have a clue,I knew from childhood I had something others did not, over the years these things just enhanced and gave me a power like no other and this my friend is something that can not be bought. Thanks for sharing this my friend and reminding me just how blessed I am,

I rely on both Fortune then my own skills. There are many people who might have better skills then me, but it is my fortune that i am here.. and there are many chances that some people who have don't have better skills then me, are higher then me.. that is their fortune. There is famous saying "Right Person, Right Time, and Right place"

I believe we have control over what we become but we don't have the experience to make good decisions when we are young--nor do we listen to our elders who have made the same mistakes we will make! I'm not all that I wanted to be but it's my own fault, not the fault of fortune. However, without my mistakes I wouldn't be who I am so I wouldn't change a thing!

yes, they ceratinly are. I think when I was younger I did fret at times. I was young, totally on my own and I would get fretful. And I was of the mind set that the worst is going to happen. This never helped. At this time in my life I was without the experience to realize there was always tomorrow and I didn't believe in fate and Karma so things got ragged fast.

Hello my friend Rajib Ji, I always believe that, "WHATEVER IS MINE , NO BODY CAN TAKE IOT, AST THE SAME TIME, ANYTHING WHICH IS NOT MINE, WHATEVER METHOD I ADOPT TO GET IT, I WILL NEVER GET IT" It is by default from Almighty. On emay attribute as 'fate/fortune'. It is upto person. All of us should get satisfied, so this tool ha sbeen provided. May God bless You and have a great time.

The kind of skills that a person possesses is still not a passport to ones success. I think we really depend on our fortune. A fortune which is sometimes misleading because it sometimes lead us to nowhere.

It would definitely be my skills (though there's not much, but it help me to survive) I don't think that fortune alone can take me far. Without skills and knowledge, it will go down the drain and left with nothing in the end. It's important to gain them all with my ability. Plus, it will makes me more proud that way as I earn it.

hi krajibg. i am in dilemma it this subject. some times i do believe and sometimes not. see.... here i offer u to watch a latest hindi movie titled by LUCK. hope u will enjoy and get some answers about luck. thanks.

you have rely more on skill than fortune. for example, when you go to college, every gets a choice to specialize in a particular area of expertise. to acquire wealth, you have to know 2 things. first, like stated before is specialization. however you want to put it(be good at something). last is the knowledge of making money or business. lets take two scenarios i am bill gates. i have knowledge in computer science and very good at it. i know business but better my chances i hire an accountant to handle the business aspects. i find a way to make money, so selling software and become wealthy i am a geek. i have anyways got A's my entire life. i dont know business. i am a programmer. in both cases, they were fortunate but a geek is not wealthy simply because he doesnt understand business. you can know business but you must know how to use the knowledge to make a profit. also if you understand society, the only way you can become truly wealthy is entrepreneur. it is the quickest and most effective route.

If I was to rely solely on my fortune I would not get very far! I believe in keeping my eyes open for signs and opportunities; this requires observation because so many openings can be missed because of inattention. I was brought up by parents who unfortunately have always and still do make me feel as though I am a complete disappointment to them. I don’t know why they are not pleased with me and the life I lead; they are just not and these days I see it as their problem, not mine. There are changes I would like to make and I know it is up to me and me only to put in the hard work required for significant life changes.