a quite annoyance just happened in this afternoon--i blowed up

@flzmlady (418)
China
September 4, 2009 2:14am CST
since i am not of a very young age(nearly 25 but its quite old in my area not to be married),my parents have urged me to find a boyfriend and stay long with him and i am willing to do this. dad has someone introduce boyfriends to me this afternoon but i really got furious by this introducing person.she introduced two to me. the first one:this introducing person called me to tell about a 31 year old boy(she said that word while i would rather refer him as a MAN) with seemingly excellent conditions.consider that i wasn't 25 now, i am wondering why she will introduce me with this ancient one ?after i gave my question out, she became silent. the second one is a boy of 29 who she said to have house and car and job (which means quite rich)and was a graduate student and who wants his partner to have a job. i said no to this introducing person becoz i dont have a stable job right now and i will not lie about it.but she said i can be seen by that boy and check out whether he likes me or not. i became pretty angry but asked where exactly he is from and which college he got his undergraduate and graduate degree since at first she gave us a quite ambiguous answer.she didn't answer it and still wanted me to meet that boy. so i asked her to ask the boy to give the exact answers to the three questions i asked, but she became furious about that by saying that the graduate college is his privacy. i told her i was not going to do something to this boy by knowing that and that since he is working too he must know that companies dont treat his graduate college as a privacy. but this introducing woman will not answer me and kept muttering some silly sentences and told me about the boy's aunt and other kinds of nonsence. i told her that i just want the three answers and she said i am troublesome and annoying then she hang up the phone. is the graduate college a privacy to a person or not ? am i really troublesome and annoying? or is she lying about the boy's condition just to let me meet him?
2 responses
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
4 Sep 09
sounds more like your dad has got an annoying person to hook you up with a guy. i think why would they want it to be a secret as to what kind of education a man has im sure he would like to know some of your background also. here in USA we just call it background check and what is he/they hiding if they/he dont want anyone to know??
@flzmlady (418)
• China
5 Sep 09
thanks.well perhaps i should tell the woman some of my information for exchange.i just dont understand why he is hiding this thing, perhaps i shall tell mine first? but thank you very much.
@srganesh (6340)
• India
4 Sep 09
You are cent percent right in your questions.We call them brokers,in our country,who come with boys/girls for marriage.Their motto is to somehow connect two people and gain something for it.They are not worried about giving right details.If you start asking questions they would sometimes bluff.So,the best thing is to inquire about the person straightly without the broker.Cheers!
@flzmlady (418)
• China
4 Sep 09
thanks but after this bad annoyance i dont want to know anything about that person anymore becoz he is some kind of that woman's relation. i was wondering for an hour after that telephone call whether or not a person's graduate college is a privacy or not. thank you very much.