How do i break up with my boyfriend?

@MizFel (89)
Nigeria
September 4, 2009 4:10am CST
i think i am ready to break up with my boyfriend but the problem is i don't know how to tell him that i don't want a distance relationship anymore! What should i do? Although we have gone out for just 2months.
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6 responses
@jasmeena (846)
• Indonesia
7 Sep 09
I wanna ask you first:Where do you live and where does he live?you know all the risks?if you`re not ready just tell the truth..then you can be friends. I can`t stand long-distance relationship, but my sister is another success story. She has know her husband sicne they were in elementary school then they started dating when there were about 15 after that he went to study in the USA and my sister still stayed and studied in Jakarta.. Sometimes they had arguments on the phone..after several break-ups in 1998 they got married and their son was born a year later and they now live happily.
@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
6 Sep 09
I think just being honest with him and letting him know how you feel. Its just the best way. If you feel that you should just be friends with him then tell them that and I think every guy hates hearing when a girl just wants to be friends, but at least you're being honest with him instead of leading him on. I hope everything works out for you in doing the right thing. Good luck.
@Fracker (177)
• Pakistan
4 Sep 09
Just tell him that you think you can't continue with this relationship due to this reason. And it is better to leave in early stage, rather then time passes, and it become hard for you both to leave each other... or you can try this site.. http://simontalks.com/2005/10/21/top-ten-ways-to-break-up-with-your-boyfriendgirlfriend/
@mrbranan (1012)
• United States
5 Sep 09
I think it would be fair to him and to your self to just tell him. If you drag it out then it hurts worse when you do finally tell him and I'm sure you don't want to hurt him anymore than you already will.
@bing28 (3795)
• Philippines
4 Sep 09
Be honest with him for your reason, just tell him you better be friends first as you find it not good, having a relationship for someone who is far away from you.
• India
4 Sep 09
Hello, I feel there is no use in continuing a relation which no more has any meaning. So I feel you should have an open discussion with him, and discuss why you cannot go on further. And part ways as friends.This will save lot of heart burn also. Best of luck