have you ever said the words i love you and not actually mean tham?
@blondegirl1975 (4298)
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@seasonal_birds (76)
• India
27 Dec 06
Actually it happed to me -More than Once.
When in my college , there were mny Gills who Asked me -- "Do you love me ?" sometimes to defend them and to avoid them from getting deppressed and similar factors .I said "Yes,I Love you !"
Just to see the SMILE on her Face
@blondegirl1975 (4298)
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28 Dec 06
yes that is nice but how did they feel when they found out that you did not love them?
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@Hamlet333 (724)
• Pakistan
27 Dec 06
dear many ppl do this that say I love u and not to mean it....u know y...for time passing...& for fun...don't u ever??????
@blondegirl1975 (4298)
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28 Dec 06
i try not to because i think that that it can hurt someone because if you say it and you dont mean it, it just means that you lie
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@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
26 Dec 06
I personally could never say those words and not mean them. I have to mean it and feel it before I can say "I love you" to someone. Those words have a special meaning and it's not in me to not mean them.
@blondegirl1975 (4298)
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27 Dec 06
that is wonderful to hear that someone believes in the words i love you
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@yarntales (639)
• United States
13 Dec 06
I think the words get used so much that they actually can lose their meaning.
For example, If I said, "I Love You" to my husband he might say "I love you" back to me kind of as a ... you said it, now I have to say it thing.
@blondegirl1975 (4298)
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26 Dec 06
that is a very good point and yes i totally agree with you and thanks for your comment
@blondegirl1975 (4298)
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27 Dec 06
I try not too but thanks for your honestly
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@sweetncute202 (4)
• United States
26 Dec 06
yes it is possible to say this and not mean it. I unfortunately am guilty of this. Once a boyfriend of mine told me he loved me and I didnt know what to say without it being awkward so I said 'I love you too'. I regretted that and I will never do it again because it wasnt fair to him and I wouldnt want someone who doesnt mean it to say it to me.
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@blondegirl1975 (4298)
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27 Dec 06
ahh that is really good, well done, it shows that you care
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@blondegirl1975 (4298)
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14 Nov 06
i can understand that but what if the person found out that you was lying, would they not be more disspointed than?
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@margieanneart (26423)
• United States
14 Nov 06
No I have not. Those are special words to be said when you do mean it from the heart.
@blondegirl1975 (4298)
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14 Nov 06
that is totally wonderful to hear that someone feels the same as me
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@sassybratky (872)
• United States
14 Nov 06
i think it is possible to say those words..we use them everyday ..so most of the time its the actions that back up the words that has meanings not the words..at least for me it is..
@blondegirl1975 (4298)
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14 Nov 06
this is very true, but what if they was showing in every way that they loved you and they was telling you that they love you what than?
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@blondegirl1975 (4298)
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14 Nov 06
well thanks for that but i mean more when you are with someone your parner, why would you tell them that you love them when you dont?
why would you want to feel that you have to lie to them. Surly it would be easier to be honest and end the rel if you really feel that you have to lie wouldn't it?
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@nicholek (15)
• United States
14 Nov 06
Yes... but in my defence, I thought I did, but after.. I realized I didn't.. and that I'd made a huge mistake.
@blondegirl1975 (4298)
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14 Nov 06
yeah but is a bit different as when you said it at the time you meant it, its only later that you realized that you did not, I mean more when someone says it your partner and you know full well that you do not love that person but you still tell them that you do
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@blondegirl1975 (4298)
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14 Nov 06
yeah i say it to friends and family and i do mean it, but i mean in sense of telling someone that your with, I just can not understand to why you would tell someone that you love them and you dont, If you have to lie to maintain a rel is it really worth being in that rel, would it not be kinder to end the rel
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@Poison_Girl (4150)
• United States
7 Dec 06
I don't remember a time when I've said it without meaning it. I think I'd have to feel it and feel that I'd mean it before I could say it. IdiotFace said it to me before and while I did like him, I didn't feel like I loved him, so I never said it back. Turns out there was a reason! He turned out to be, well... an idiot! To put it nicely, anyway...
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@blondegirl1975 (4298)
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7 Dec 06
lol i have had one of them also my ex was a right idiot aswell
I am happy with my currant boyfriend thou so that is a bonus lol
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@blondegirl1975 (4298)
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14 Nov 06
why would you say it if you did not mean it?
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