how to make friends with girls?
By MizFel
@MizFel (89)
Nigeria
September 4, 2009 3:02pm CST
i have always found it really hard to make friends with girls and i only have guys as my friends. I don't know if am the only one in the world that just can't have a female friend. My bro is getting worried that i don't have girlfriends. What should i do? Someone should help me out here!
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7 responses
@fwidman (11514)
• United States
4 Sep 09
I think you are okay without them. being a girl yourself, maybe that makes it harder for you to be friends with other females. I, being a male, would much rather be friends with girls than guys. I don't know why, maybe because I don't have the patience for all the BS that guys talk about
Also, you are still very young. At your age friendships come and go. As you get older you'll make many new friends and I'm sure that some of them will be females so tell your brother not to worry about you so much
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@Albert1989 (372)
• Malaysia
3 Aug 10
Ten girls will be shy and will want you (the guy) to come talk to them. So, if you'r confident enough, make the first move. You'll have to make it really clear from the outset that this is about friendship, not romantic love, but there is certainly nothing wrong with the love of friends. Tell her what you want to be her friend for ever an that'll melt her heart.
@scarlet_woman (23463)
• United States
7 Sep 09
a goodly portion of my friends are male too.the female friends are rare,and honestly the majority of them are here LOL
i just tend to get along with them better,don't know why.
@lawana_f (326)
• United States
5 Sep 09
It is hard as a woman to be friends with other women. It is in the nature of many women to act like they are in junior high and treat their friends badly. Women and men like to gossip but women do it differently than men and often it hurts others espically their so called friends. Women are for the most part witches with a b, but if you look carefully you can find a few you enjoy being around.
In this life if you have 5 true friends you are a very blessed person. Outside my family I can count my real friends on one hand and have fingers left. I may know many people and interact with them, but actaul friendship is a different matter all together.
As long as you are not hiding for the world that includes women then tell your brother everything is fine. But you will continue to watch for females that will make the list of good friends.
@meapas (2436)
• India
5 Sep 09
There are many girls of your age group having some sort of problems all the time. So extend your helping hand to them in what ever way possible. Be more loving and caring towards girls of your group. Everything else will take care of itself.