i love you forever....

ya just got to tell him how ya feel about this. that you dont think its proper to do this on line or texting would be alot better in person so you can see if he is for real!

Honestly, for a person who is in love, there is no opinion that could change your mind except what is favorable. anyway if you are both single, why not. Things has changed now. even the courting has changed(who would have heard about dating online 20 years ago). But the thing is you know your situation better. and you can answer better your questions friend. Just enjoy it. or might as well thing twice.

I think that is very nice of him but I would not want him to do that to me online either. I think you should try to be nice and tell him that this is a private thing between the both of you and you would like it off of the internet and more face to face.

that's really sweet. if he is far from you, i think courting online and through calling and texting is the next thing for him to do. but be careful though, make sure that you know more things about him. like is he already married? because if he is then he is only trying to fool you with his sweet messages. but if not then go ahead and make a decision for yourself with what you feel.

You didn't talk to him about this matter and text messages? Does he know that you are aware of the person who is sending messages? If he is married then don't take chances and if at all single then he is trying to show his feelings towards you. First of all are you single or married? If you are married then just don't think about any extra affiars in your married life. It is not going to be a good idea. All the best

Hi Zelmarq, Rule #1: Always stand up for your beliefs. Rule #2: If you don't tell him, then he'll never know. Rule #3: Open yourself to comprimise. These are the best "rules" of advice that I can give you when dealing with a man; although, it could apply to any relationship. Basically, if you think online courting is wrong, then be sure to tell him that you are uncomfortable with the situation. Make certain to let him know what methods would be more acceptable to you. At the same time, cut him a little bit of slack. He may just want to remind you on occasion that he cares about you, and that moment might hit him when he happens to be on Facebook. Ultimately though, this is all about your "comfort zone" and what you are and are not willing to accept as part of a relationship. Best of luck! :)

Why only online and thru text messages... does he live far away from where you live... is there no other way that he can go to your house or pick you up from work?... but then he might only be buying his time and might surprise you with his presence one of these days... But if he really is serious... then he should be physically present when courting you... that is like a significant way of showing his real feeling for you...

As long as he is not married I don't see anything wrong with it......does he live very far away? If nothing else it's fun and exciting to be getting flattering text's etc!

hi zel .. if he is someone you alreay knew then there is no danger but if it is a stranger then you have to think twice before committing into any relationship r u interested ??

There's No guarantee when it comes to long distance court-ship. text and call are not enough, you don't know what this guy is really up to. you should let him do what he wants but expect to meet up with him and if not, then he asked for a "yes" from you, don't do it. he should court you personally, just to get to know him clearly

I don't think that courting over the net is proper. But in my situation while I was courting my girl, I court her over the phone. I really have no guts to face her and stare her in the eyes and say I love you and will you be my girl. I really have no guts to push it through. But luckily she understood me and right there and then she says yes to me and we were officially dating. And one day I personally asked her to be my girlfriend and there I had my first chance to stare her in the eye and say the magic word. Not all guys are really that tough to court a girl personally. I hope you can understand how the guy feel if he is deeply in love with you. Then he'll do anything to court you in person.

Aw! I think its sweet, but I can see your point as well. If he really felt that way about you he would bring it out in public face to face. Talk to you in person and actually spend time with you instead of hiding behind electronics. Also remember, guys are very good at saying romantic things, but actually meaning them is a different story. He may even have a girlfriend and is hiding the fact by never seeing you in person that way he can keep you online and her in real life. i know a lot of guys that do that and it is definitely not right.

I'm from a Asian country. My suggestion is If you like that person very much or you want him in your life or want a relationship with him then just go for it. But before that check whether he is really wanting you or he just want to flirt with you. But dont ignore someone who is very true in the love. Before taking decision just think whether you require any relationship with him. But if you dont have any feeling for him then just meet him if he is nearby or mail him. And try to make him understand what actual you feel for him. will that work out or whatever u have in ur mind. Just make your things clear, but do this whole heartedly. Things which you miss now cant get back even if you get you wont be getting that affection and care from that person later when you feel like being with them. Think a lot before making any decision. Hope your problem may solve through this. Good day..