How often do you allow your personal business affect your work?
By clorissa123
@clorissa123 (4926)
United States
September 5, 2009 10:29am CST
We are all human beings, and we have to deal with million of stuffs daily including personal life, and all others. Work is part of our lives too, and we all have to work to continue our expenses and to live. Sometimes, it would be unavoidable if your personal life affect your work performance. Such as you love life doesn't work out, which might affect your emotion at work. Or you couldn't concentrate and make more mistakes than before. What you can do just take control of your emotion as best as you can. No one is perfect, and we all trying to deal with all these millions things in one day.
So, what is the best way to control your personal business not affect your work performance? Would you allow it to affect your work?
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6 responses
@bigmal12 (57)
• United States
5 Sep 09
Nah, i wouldnt let it. I mean, unless it helps you at your job, and makes pepeole feel bad for you or something, and your boss starts going easy on you, i dont think you should let personal bussiness, effect your work. Because, ussually if you do, you cant focus while your on the job, so that isn't good at all. The boss will get mad, and probably fire you, and you do want that, at least i don't think you do.
@clorissa123 (4926)
• United States
5 Sep 09
I agree with you on this argument. It is really hard for everyone to be that clear and draw the line between. We all trying to do our best to not affect our work performance. Sometimes, we have learn from experience.
@lawana_f (326)
• United States
5 Sep 09
The rule is when you walk in the door at work you put everything else out of your mind. But when you walk out the door at work you put your work behind you. Sadly that simply does not work in todays modern world. Yes when things fall apart at home then it will affect your work and every other aspect of you life.
TO minimize these effects at work try to follow the rule above. I do that by prayer. I count on God to know what is best for me in my life. If that relationship I tried did not work I give myself time to mourn, and if possible I pray for the happiness of the other person. I do this on my private time. At work if you can play music make it upbeat the noise will help you stay up. (for me this is Chris Ledoux).
If you have to allow yourself a few minutes (10 pr 15) each morning or afternoon to mourn if you need it then put it aside and know you can be sad again later. But know that life is about moving forward so you have to do that.
@clorissa123 (4926)
• United States
5 Sep 09
I believe that time will heal every wound. If you have broken relationship. Learn to move on, and learn to be understanding. You have to make your life better, and should think positive. That is what I learn from life experience sometimes.
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
6 Sep 09
I've worked in the public for years and so I am pretty used to leaving my personal problems at the door when I go into work. I know it is hard sometimes but you really have to. I mean...I went thru a couple of breakups and problems with kids and had to work. You can't help but have these things on your mind but if you get into your job then with any luck you will at least get your mind off of things for a bit. Working in the public it is very important to learn to at least put on a good cover-up. Customers deserve a pleasant and smiling person serving them. If you work on construction or machinery....it is vital to your safety to be able to put your problems aside and focus on your job.
@khayshenz (1384)
• United States
5 Sep 09
I rarely let my personal business affect my work. And I think I'm actually adept at not mixing both. In order to be professional - I think it's important to draw the line and leave where AT WORK, and leave life's issues at home. And as much as I don't like taking work home where it mixes with my personal life, sometimes I have to. I think the best way to not let each other mix is when you're at work - focus on working and your job.
@clorissa123 (4926)
• United States
5 Sep 09
Well, it is easy to say rather done. I would want to be clear between both two. Sometimes, you brain just won't listen to your voice command. You might just wander away from your work status, and thinking on something else. That is human beings. Everyone wants to be work focus too.
@marctiu (829)
• Philippines
6 Sep 09
I really don't allow my personal life interrupt my work. I don't want to be fired from my job just because of personal problems that have not been resolve. I would probably set it aside until the job is done and then go back to the personal dilemma that I have been facing.
I know that many of the people are so emotional and I mean they let their personal problem interfere with their job. They get easily angry during their job and they don't listen to criticisms too they just like to do things their own way.
@gelibean (158)
• United States
6 Sep 09
I try my hardest not to let my personal life interfer with my business life. I don't talk about my personal life with my collegues and I don't gossip at work. I find that it's easier to keep the peace on the work environment if I don't listen to gossip either. I'm there to do my job an go home. Don't get me wrong I'm friends with my coworkers and we go to lunch together and things of that nature but we talk about work relates things while at lunch and keep the conversations light and polite.