Am I Afraid or practical or nothing at all?
By jralivio511
@jralivio511 (480)
Philippines
September 5, 2009 10:55pm CST
I told myself when I was in teenage years that I want to have my own family at the age of 25 but I think that's impossible. I don't even have a boyfriend. Someone told me that he loves me but I can't love him. He is the bread winner and I don't think that he can give me a better life that he has right now. I want my children to have a good and comfortable life in the future and I don't think he can afford that.
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4 responses
@arthi_88 (1516)
• India
6 Sep 09
I guess thinking about economic security for the children is every parents inborn necessity and you are not different. But giving economic security to the children is not only their father but their mother's duty to...The kind of life me and my siblings lead is supported by both our and family is about so many other things.I don't think you should rush into things so that you can surely have a family at 25..What matters most is what kind of family you have then when you have it..So friend it will be better if you search until your heart and head both says yes to a person..have a nice day!
@jralivio511 (480)
• Philippines
7 Sep 09
There's one thing that I hate when someone get's hurt. He or she doesn't used his or her both heart and mind. Most of inlove person used their hearts and it stops there.
@sunita64 (6469)
• India
6 Sep 09
It seems the person who loves you is not the right choice for you as you yourself feel that the life you want for your children to be , he won't be able to give. So I feel if you want to have a family at 25 then you have to move forward and explore some other possibilities.
@jralivio511 (480)
• Philippines
7 Sep 09
Yes, you are so right. And I really don't like him. There's nothing I love about him or even like.
@EliteUser (3964)
• Australia
20 Sep 09
Hey,
Yea many people, especially women need to find someone that can actually have the finances in order to be able to run a family. Countless women have divorced because of not enough money being brought in the house. Make sure you have a good day, God bless and Happy Lotting!!
@taztheone (1721)
• India
6 Sep 09
Don't worry, what is supposed to happen will happen. You will get a good life because it is common for many of us to worry unnecessarily thinking what will happen. But it is to be noted that in life we have to make big compromises to have a successful life. If you expect a job with $5,000 as salary, may be you will have to settle down for a job with $1000 as salary. So learn to compromise & look for the best.
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