The things your should know about men/women

United States
September 6, 2009 2:25pm CST
if you had a friend or sibling of the opposite gender ,what would you tell them about your gender. Me,I would tell my male friends that money won't help you change a women's mind about you .In other words ,if she isn't into you ,no amount of money will change her mind.And if it does,then she is only after your money. And if she likes you ,I mean really likes it doesn't matter if you have little money.At least at first.A honest ,starving student who is working toward something is better than a shallow obnoxious rich gut ,going nowhere.What is your advice?
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6 responses
• United States
6 Sep 09
You are right on target! honesty is always the best policy, not only because it is hard to keep track of lies but someday the truth will be revealed. I always tell my kids, and I have both genders, do not settle for someone who doesn't love you, all of them, for who they are. Love should be unconditional, meaning they love you no matter what you do and do not put conditions on that love, like how much money you have.
@arkansos (545)
• India
7 Sep 09
i just have to say one thing here. The women don't want money crap is just that. Would you go out with a good natured homeless guy. if he told you he hasn't got a job for years and has no money and occasional may need to lend money from you. No hell no you won't. maybe a quick shag but no more. Because the no money required crap only works when both people have comfortable amount of money.
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• United States
8 Sep 09
Okay.I know for sure if I don't like a guy ,no amount of money will change my mind.I wouldn't loan money to a guy ,I don't any .But if I connect with a guy down on his luck,I would hang out with him Way before a rich a$$hole.I agree with the line in Carman Jones,"If I like a guy he doesn't need money,and if I don't, his money won't do any good."
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• United States
8 Sep 09
I would happily stay home with a guy I love than go out to a restaurant with a guy I don't like.I am not into going out to posh restaurants.I prefer a pizza,which I could pay for,at home with a guy I like.I don'tlookat a guys bank account, look to see if we can bond
@arkansos (545)
• India
8 Sep 09
see that's what you agree by contradiction. I am not saying you'll ask for money, but you want him to have some. Go out with a broke guy would you? No because u don't like guys who can't pay for dinner. but honey he doesn't have any money. Hence money matterth.
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• Canada
6 Sep 09
I'd like to tell them how annoying it is when guys call constantly call us "Sweetie, honey, dear, cookie, baby, love" when they don't even know us. If lovers and friends have special pet names for eachother that's fine, but when strangers do it, it's just patronizing!!!!
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• United States
8 Sep 09
Wow,I am your polar opposite,I love it. I get sweetie all the time.And I don't mind it at al.Maybe it is a southern thing.
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
7 Sep 09
Have you ever got that right! I have dated a couple of millionaires.....not bragging just letting you know....one was so boring talking about all he had....one was older and that didn't last long at all....and one was so stuck on himself it almost made me barf! Yup....you got it right money doesn't mean a thing to a woman there has to be love!....now also I would remind them that things have changed....women can use help with the kids and doing dishes and it doesn't make them less of a man.....and women...you can rake a yard or wash a car....helping each other out is what it's about...work is not divided by gender! That's old fashioned!
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• United States
8 Sep 09
If I marry,I would be very old fashioned.That's why I never will marry. I agree,if your partner needs help around the house,inside or out ,you should at least try to help.My mom told me that my dad would try to help but it would turn out being worse, she would have to redo everything.
@srganesh (6340)
• India
7 Sep 09
I am a male and I would say to a female,"you can't possess a man unless you can prove your love and care for him".You should show it and at the same time should not brag him for it.He don't appreciate nurtures from his girl.And if a man has taken her close to his heart then nothing will make him drop her.Cheers!
• United States
8 Sep 09
How should a woman show a man she loves him?
@KaraKATAD (246)
• Philippines
7 Sep 09
Well I'm a girl and I'd like to tell boys that they have to chase us to get us. And I'd like to tell girls that we always have to play hard to get, but to not overdo it. It's important to keep that tension up even after you get together so that the relationship won't become average and no one will take another for granted. I'd also like to tell boys that they should allow girls to pay once in a while if they offer to, but not if they don't. Remember, it's usually the boys chasing the girls, so the girls shouldn't give it all away.
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