What kind of 'break up reason' is most unacceptable for you?
By lcainiao
@lcainiao (201)
China
September 6, 2009 8:23pm CST
Don't your guys only have one love relationship in the lifetime? I have watched an intersting program on TV, in which the topic is Supposing you were in front of breaking up, what kind of break up reason you hate most would be? For example, incompatible in disposition, love someone else, or just never meet, like vanishing from the earth. Then, what kind of 'break up reason' is most unacceptable ofr you, if your lover tells you the reason at the break up moment?
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2 responses
@vivianchen (2646)
• China
7 Sep 09
I have to think before i answer your question. I have 3 ex-boyfriends, when we broke up, we are more like "okay, that is it, that's enough, let's be just friends", then we start living separately until we total forgotten each other. I think the most unacceptable break up reason for me will be " I have to leave you because of your family!"
I think that is just a wrost excuse in the world, there is nothing to do with my family if you love me, right?
I think that is just a wrost excuse in the world, there is nothing to do with my family if you love me, right?
@maezee (41988)
• United States
7 Sep 09
My least favorite reason to break up would be the commitment-phobia drill. I dated one guy who, after about a month or so, decided that he wasn't "ready" to "settle down". I thought this was kind of ridiculous, because a month into dating - you're never really ready to settle down (until at least 3-4 years have passed). It was his excuse to justify cheating on me, though. I hate when guys (or girls, I guess..) are afraid of the "commitment" involved in being in a "boyfriend/girlfriend" relationship. These commitment issues are totally in their heads; if we're with the right person, commitment should be something that comes automatically, not something that has to be forced!
