Give more love or get more love from others?

@lcainiao (201)
China
September 6, 2009 8:32pm CST
Some people said, love is selfless, we should give more love to others. While other people said, how can we love others if we don't love ourselves? Our love philosophy is different from each other, which raises different oaths about love. In any case, which would you choose, give more love or get more love from others? there are three different opinions below, A, love more ourselves. Only the person who knows how to love himself is qualified to love others. It is true that people who give more love always get hurt more seriously. But love is beyond our control, unconsciously, people often give more love to others than what they get. B, The way to being happy is to make others happy first. I prefer to give more love. the way to being happy is to love others and to make them happy first. Love is worth everything to pay. C, people need to hold the degree of love. I think no matter whether we give more love orr get more love from others, the most important thing is to hold the degree of love. In front of love, we can't get lost or be unreasoning. Only two people who do not neglect each other when they love themselves, can they have the most balanced way of love.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
7 Sep 09
lcainiao hi hatley here. Jesus said you should love yourself as you'love your neighbor so that you know how to love. that means'you have to respect yourself before you c an give respect and love to'anyone else.but you can both give love to others as you love yourself because they work together. And all the love you give only is returned to you twice fold. When you love you want to respect and cherish and protect the one you love,it becomes selfless and wonderful and draws the love back to you.